Building a relationship with my dad, but leaving my healthcare program.
I (21 F) am in surgical technology school, my dad recently asked me if i would be willing to go to Indiana with him to work in the plants in August. i live in Texas and I have one semester left after this one is done, but I think this would be a great opportunity to make money for my future and start doing things to actually enjoy my life and grow. Me and my dad have never gotten along and he’s never wanted me to work at the plants because of the type of men that work there, but the pay is really good and I feel a shift in our relationship. He’s old and I don’t want him to die not knowing enough about him. He confides in me and we have had deep chats about his life in Mexico. I feel like I need this to become a stronger person. If it delays me a semester (3 months), is this worth it, i am also not as motivated as I used to be for school so I believe a hiatus while working, studying in my free time, and being in a different state would allow me to become the best me. I feel a shift in my life and I’m strongly considering this.
TLDR I want to do so much in life and I want to connect with my dad, but I have friends here. Leaving my program so i can also become a better person, gain knowledge, strength and understand my father and build a better relationship with him would do me good even if it means sacrificing school for a bit and leaving friendships behind.