u/nattybatty01

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Ex slept with girls straight after the break up

Broke up with my ex end of April, haven’t spoken for about a month then I begged for him back ( stupid I know). Anyways we started talking again and trying to work it out.
I have recently found out his tinder profile and he admitted to me with sleeping with girls.
Worst thing is he slept with them whilst he was sleeping with me which makes me feel so disgusted.
How can someone do that after 6 years??
Him still telling me he loves me loool

I cut all contact, don’t want anything to do with him but I couldn’t imagine already sleeping with other people straight after the break up, especially we was still living together at that time.

I’m finding it very hard to deal with this, maybe it hurt my ego a little bit.
How do I deal with this?
Anyone have any similar experiences?
Would love to hear them :)

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u/nattybatty01 — 6 hours ago

Advice

How do I stop thinking about him??
We been together for 7 years and broke up 2 months ago, I laid out my feelings to him and asked if he could ever imagine getting back together… to him literally ghosting me lol. (Bare in mind I initiated the break up)
How do I move on? How do I stop that anxious feeling from becoming unbearable? How do I randomly stop texting him when the feelings get too much?
I want to block him but it’s always the ‘ what if’
Please don’t judge, I am finding this very hard as it’s my first ever break up, never experienced this before :/

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u/nattybatty01 — 1 month ago

break up💔

I need some help as I’m very exhausted and not sure whether to carry on putting effort in.
Me and my ex have been together 7 years and broke up at the start of the year. I initiated the break up as mentally I could not deal with it anymore knowing I haven’t been supporting him enough and not been the best girlfriend but also seeing the other side not putting the effort in anymore.
(Bare in mind we have been through some rough shit over the past few years)
We have recently got back in contact and started sleeping together once in a while ( we still share custody of our dog). I thought I could just sleep with him but unfortunately the feelings started to come back :/ (stupid me I know)

I have explained to him how I feel and just asked a general question if he wanted to get back together which then he got very angry and started to rant how much I messed up his life and that it was a waste of time.
For me it generally wasn’t, I learnt a lot from this relationship and just wanted to know whether if we worked on each other we could be together again.

He has now blocked me but has given me mixed signals before he did as I asked a general question whether he would get back together or not, he could just not simply answer it which leaves me feeling very confused.

Do you think it’s worth fighting or do you think he is mentally and emotionally done with me now?
I think what makes it worse or makes me want to be there for him is that he is all alone, hasn’t really got any friends here only at home and only lives with one of his parents and had a bad upbringing.

Just a girl who is mentally exhausted and needs some help :)

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u/nattybatty01 — 1 month ago