How to kill men

31 M here.

I was talking to a girl to whom I mentioned about a book called how to kill your family, but the exact motion is not about to kill family members. I had a chance to read about how to kill men.

It gave me a feeling about how people can easily judge the book you read. I was reading how to kill your family and she became sceptical about why I am reading it. I just want to know is curiosity is the thing that kills the cat?.

Dear haldwani and its readers I want to know do u judge how people read books, and what they read? Isn't it about freedom and a genre to explore about?

What should I tell to this girl that I don't want to kill my family but an inquisitiveness is the cat Alive or dead?

Help me 1

reddit.com
u/negative_baba — 2 days ago

BAT BMS

What is more worrisome? A deprived person, or making that person feel more vulnerable? A person who is in the quagmire of poverty, has a hand-to-mouth situation, and just to gain some likes over social media, I have seen teens or maybe boys in their early 20s using this app which shuts down an e-rickshaw. And that's how I found myself in conundrum.

Just to relieve this from my chest, and to know the views of fellow Redditors, here I present my flurry.

reddit.com
u/negative_baba — 3 days ago

Mai wapas aaunga (review)

Movie was amazing.

It was exactly as expected from Imtiaz Ali. I am an avid reader. After reading kitne pakistan, train to pakistan and other literature on partition the memories of horror and devastation live in my mind. I visualised a teeny tiny frame of those moments.

Coming back to the movie: it was nice to watch. Amazing to learn and to live the life of the protagonist. It takes you from high to low, joy to unhappy to sorrowful to devastation to despondent and then it takes back you to the epiphany.

Some rant:

I watch cinema a lot. This is something of an art for me to watch Imtiaz Ali (as the previous works of him touched down deeply whether it is rockstar, tamasha, jab we met) the bar is set so high.

With this there was a lady sitting next to me who was with her kid (maybe) and she was constantly in some kind of treasure hunt to predict what's upcoming, and to show sarcasm about the character. It's my question to the gang, how do you tolerate these peeps, when u r at a high point of emotion, your vulnerability is tickling down from your eyes, and suddenly a bad joke comes from that lady that kills the whole vibe.

Rest all was fine and I honestly enjoyed the roller coaster ride a lot.

reddit.com
u/negative_baba — 13 days ago

Mai wapas aaunga

Going to watch Mai Wapas Aaunga today at Walkway (assuming that’s still its legal name).

Conducting a public service review.

If the movie slaps, I’ll recommend it to the gang. If not, I alone will bear this financial and emotional damage.

reddit.com
u/negative_baba — 13 days ago

You cannot believe on indian trains

Sometimes they are fast, sometimes they are sloth. And with all due respect I boarded the other one. I have always thought that trains are late in india, but this late...!

This must be an epitome of being late.. even a co-passenger with me had 40nuears of train experience and he was also flabbergasted by the timings of the train. My train number was 05059 and it was delayed by 24 hours. Means I reached my destination at 12 noon instead of 3pm which was supposed to be of yesterday. To my surprise one passenger told me that never book a train starting from 0 series. Now I know why it was said.

But at-last the train helped me reach my destination safe and sound. But still the cumbersome journey of the person travelling in general must be a thing to be talked about. If we miss the train we get no refund but who gets a refund it doesn't leave you at times.

reddit.com
u/negative_baba — 21 days ago
▲ 313 r/kolkata

Thanks Calcutta

​

OP is leaving Calcutta.

Two weeks. Just two weeks. Funny how a city can quietly make space for you in such little time.

In these fourteen days, Calcutta gave me something I did not know I needed — warmth without questions, chaos without discomfort, and peace hidden beneath all its noise.

From sitting by the banks at Prinsep Ghat watching time slow down… to crossing the river through the old ferries of Howrah Ferry Ghat where life somehow looked simpler.

From the neon nights of Park Street that never seemed tired… to the unapologetic madness of Flower Market where chaos itself had rhythm.

I found something strangely powerful standing in front of Maa at Kalighat Kali Temple and later at Dakshineswar Kali Temple. It felt like the city carries a feminine force — fierce, nurturing, destructive, protective — all at once.

And somewhere between eating endless Puchka, spicy Jhalmuri, getting lost in streets I couldn’t name, and hearing Bengali around every corner… I stopped feeling like a visitor.

I come from the place where Ganga begins.

And here, I watched her nearing the ocean.

Strange thought, but maybe life is exactly that.

We begin somewhere pure and certain… then move through cities, people, heartbreaks, joy, ambition, mistakes, memories… carrying pieces of everything we touch.

And one day, just like the river, we merge into something bigger than ourselves.

So yeah…

Thank you, Calcutta.

For not asking who I was.

For simply letting me exist.

We live. We laugh. We love. We flow.

Until next time.

u/negative_baba — 23 days ago
▲ 32 r/kolkata

Calcutta POV from non Kolkata person

Kolkata has a way of disarming me.

You arrive expecting a city, and somehow you leave carrying stories.

This evening, I found myself standing near a busking performance outside Suman's Roll. A man with a rich, powerful bass voice was singing old songs, and for a few moments the chaos of the city seemed to pause and listen with me. There was no grand stage, no spotlight—just talent, passion, and a street full of strangers sharing the same moment.

I wandered on, collecting little souvenirs and little memories. I ate fuchka—as Kolkata insists on calling it—and I have to admit, the city may have won that argument. Everything somehow tastes better here.

At one point, I asked a stranger to click a picture of me. In many places, you get a quick click and a polite nod. Here, the gentleman stopped, adjusted the angle, took a few photographs, and made sure they came out well. Such small acts of kindness seem ordinary to Bengali, but to a visitor they feel extraordinary.

I am beginning to think that Kolkata's sweets are not sweet because of sugar. They are sweet because of the people who make them, sell them, and serve them with a smile. The warmth of the city finds its way into everything.

A cup of chai, a hot samosa, music floating through the evening air, conversations happening in Bengali all around me, yellow taxis rolling by, and the endless rhythm of the streets—Kolkata feels less like a destination and more like a living story.

Yes, the humidity is intense. I carry a hand towel everywhere, and within minutes the weather reminds me of who's in charge.

But somehow even that feels like part of the city's character. Kolkata demands that you slow down, wipe your forehead, sip your chai, and stay a little longer.

What has surprised me most is the gentleness of the people. In a world that often feels rushed and guarded, Kolkata still seems comfortable being kind.

As someone from Uttarakhand, I never expected to feel so at home hundreds of kilometres away. Yet there are moments here when the city feels strangely familiar—as though it has quietly adopted me for a while.

Some cities impress you with their skylines. Some impress you with their wealth. Kolkata impresses you with its heart.

I'll keep posting my little POVs from this beautiful city, so please bear with me, the kind people of Kolkata. These are simply the observations of a happy traveler who arrived as a visitor and is slowly falling in love with the city.

Thank you for your warmth, your food, your music, your stories, and your kindness.

Khoob bhalo, Kolkata. (Pardon my bengali if it's wrong but the word itself pushes me to use it)

Until the next story. ❤️🙏🏻

u/negative_baba — 1 month ago