Hypothetical hreesum gone wrong
Okay so for context, I have a friend we shall call Beth. Beth has been with her man for around a year I have known Beth for 10 years.. Beth and I have hooked up just her and I before and we have had a 3!sum a few times with her ex. It's always been a lot of fun.
Beth and I fell out for a couple years and she recently messaged me asking if I would be down to hang out. While we are hanging out we end up having sex.... Later in the day she asks about a 3 sum with her new dude. I say yes because historically it's always been fun.
The first couple times we were all supposed to meet up her dude never showed and he quit replying. It was weird... I wondered if maybe she lied about having a dude and wanted to see me again?? I didn't know it just seemed sketchy to me the guy asking for it wouldn't show up?
How over the last month I've seen Beth almost everyday. I think I may have actual feelings for her. .I told her the other day I wasn't sure if I could follow through because honestly I am scared to see her with him. She is basically in love and this dude treats her like shit. She doesn't have a lot of confidence I wish she could see how beautiful and special she is. She adds so much happiness to my day.
Well long story short we were all supposed to meet up and I ditched them. I freaked out because I didn't want to tell her why.... But then it got them fighting. He called her a liar and accused her of making me up.
She was sexually assaulted and raped a few years ago. She can do most things sexually but struggles with others.. hence bringing in a female to do what she can't. And hello. That's fucking huge. I wouldn't do that for my man.
It just makes me so mad at him. He broke it off with her After I flaked out.
She is devastated. I went over there tonight and she was hysterical. I ended up telling her the truth which she was happy about and she said she likes me too.
What do I do? I want to go pay this dude a visit. Like in heated. But also I just want her to know she is safe with me and I'll never hold her past over her head.
How would you guys proceed from here?