u/notblrcitypolice

Testing the waters here, I’m 25, Male, based in Bangalore, and looking for something that can eventually become serious. Not trying to find a wife by Thursday, i’m trying to get to know people first.

I work in fintech, Outside of work, I’m pretty happy-go-lucky and extremely spontaneous. I’ll happily decide at 1 AM that we need ice cream or a random drive. If there’s an interesting event happening somewhere, there’s a decent chance I’ve already bought the ticket.

My weekends are usually some combination of restaurants, bars, dancing, live music, comedy shows, go-karting, hiking, sports, travelling, or just wandering around somewhere crowded.
Sundays are usually quieter: cooking, cleaning, horror movie marathon etc.

I love art and collecting things. I have a ton of tattoos, Whenever I travel, I try to bring something home that reminds me of the place. My house is slowly becoming a museum of questionable financial decisions. I collect art, coins, old books, playing cards, shells, stones, random artifacts, and things that have some meaning to me. I even kept copies of my old hostel and first-apartment keys because apparently I need physical evidence of where I started.

I grew up abroad and try to travel internationally a couple of times a year.

I’m very family-oriented and big on honesty, boundaries and communication. I’ve worked in the service industry before, so being rude to waiters is an immediate red flag.

I’d rather have an uncomfortable conversation than spend three days decoding passive-aggressive Morse code.

I’m also annoyingly sentimental. I remember little things people tell me, and I’m the kind of person who will remember you mentioned liking elephants six months ago and randomly show up with a wooden one because I thought you’d like it.

As for dating me: I’m independent, but I want someone I can genuinely lean on and who can lean on me. I’ll cook for you when you’re sick, make you breakfast, apologise first when I’m wrong, and still feed you when we’re fighting because apparently my love language is refusing to let people starve during conflict.

I also make extremely stupid jokes. Maybe 3/10 land, but I keep going. It’s a numbers game. I have 2 cats. I dont care about religion, what matters is that you’re a good human being. You could be older, hardly matters to me.

I’m looking for someone kind, genuine, communicative and curious about the world. Someone who puts in effort, remembers the little things, and ultimately wants to build a life together.

And because I don’t want to accidentally catfish anyone: I’m actively working on getting back into shape. i’ve lost over 8 kgs and still going. I’m not going to use five-year-old photos and pretend otherwise. I’m working on it.

If any of this sounds like someone you’d enjoy getting to know, dm me about what matches or if you have any questions.

Worst case, we have a conversation. Best case, we accidentally become each other’s favourite person.