I just wanted to share my progress so far! This is at 78% perfection, only a few craftables & cooking recipes left (outside of the fact that idh a golden clock yet haha). Not the most efficient farm, but it's still pretty right?
Hi everyone, me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year and a half now. Even before we dated I kinda knew that he has a pessimistic view in life, which was the complete opposite of how I viewed it. I like to believe that rejection is redirection, that everything has its own purpose of happening and all that. Recently I’ve been really drained with comforting my boyfriend. I have done everything I can to help him look at the positive side of things, but I guess everything I say just goes down the drain for him. He continues to think negatively. I know it’s the result of his upbringing but it has been really draining. I want to be able to be there for him when he’s facing all sorts of thing things but it’s been just so draining cause I feel like everything I say or do just never sticks with him.
I feel like a shitty girlfriend cause I sometimes feel like I don’t want to listen to his “negative” rants cause it just absolutely drains the hell out of me. And sometimes out of pure frustration, I literally just want to agree with whatever negative thing he says.
Idk guys, I really wanna be there for him but I just feel like he’s drained all the optimism from me. Any advice?