When my husband and I were dating he was texting his ex wife and she sent him money and he told her not to tell me. I've been struggling with them texting even about their daughters. Has anyone worked through something similar?
I'm looking for opinions on a situation between my fiance and his ex wife. Recently they were texting in a way that seemed flirtatious. My fiance shared a story with his wife of something their daughter said about at her mom's house the order of the people's bedrooms. It just doesn't seem like an important conversation that requires sharing. And then when his ex wife was picking up his daughters he made a comment about hoping the youngest poops for her. Later she texted him saying the youngest was pooping and blaming him in a playful way. In my opinion their interactions were coming off flirtatious. I shared with him how I was feeling and it gets turned around on me that he's just being friendly with the mother of his daughters. And I understand being friendly with her. She's been over to our house for dinner and walked through our home. I do feel we are friendly with her I just think there should be boundaries out of respect for his and I relationship. Now he's calling me master, and asking if he's allowed to reply to her. I'm not trying to dictate his interactions with her. I just want to feel respected. Any thoughts?