u/one_nocturnal

you know when you waking late at night and your brain decides to come up with world mysteries typa questions? yeaa

I'm curious now- okay now imagine your system is very colourful there are all kinds of races genders sexual orientations and stuff. and you date a singlet or another system who has only one typa gender in their whole system (like only girls or only boys system) and because your system is basically a salad soup, you have different orientations and preferences but most your alters date that other person and you find out the other person want you too but you're not sexually interested in them. OR when your alters date each other and ur sys-partner is uncomfy with that.

i feel like that'd be a common problem i just never thought of it before but- yea my question is- is there a solution to that

srry if what i try to explain doesn't make sense I'm so sleep deprived but i also need answers

honestly I'm writing this with an empty head and no thoughts at all, i had a long day but oh well i got curious now i thought I'd ask.

so i noticed some apps like simply plural and other things (by 'other things' i mean other system related apps. i think i once read that therapists were using them to track stuff but i don't process thoughts well rn so it might not make sense i have a bad memory anyway) are down now. i wasn't really using them because it always felt so forced. my question is more about your daily life. like were you using those apps if so how are you managing without them now and if you weren't using them, why not?