u/orchidguy20

heey, im 23M and trust me im not hitting on anyone and also not in the mood for that. but im curious if women exist who have never been in a relationship. i feel like now with my age everyone is and has been in one.

EDIT: obv ik there are some but my question is more why did it never work out for you? i feel like in this time women have it easier than men to be in one. and also i have also never been in one.

heey, im 23M and i reverted some months ago, alhamdullilah!! basically i really used to or still love a girl and last summer i just told her that i really like her through a handwritten letter haha but also stated that ik that due to religious differences it wont work. her response was the she doesnt want to be any relationship for now and doesnt want to get to know any guy. and she also said she doesnt want kids and if it came to something then religion would matter but at the end she said again. she doesnt want to be in a relationship for a long time.

anyway she is still in my class and im trying to let her go. the first few weeks im school we didnt talk but then we got comfortable again talking. during summer i truly started searching god and started even with christianity but then saw islam was the true religion so i even fastes in ramadan and at the end i reverted. the thing is shes muslim too so idk like weeks after i told her i reverted but her response was: „ah ok, have fun on your journey“. look maybe she thought i did it for her but i defo didnt. but yeah since that response i really tried to let go. its still hard but whats scares me the most is how many ppl are single and i have never ever been in a relationship so i have kept myself clean. like in the western, especially in my country, many muslims have girlfriends so there is really short amount of ppl who didnt do zina. seeing this reddit also shows everyone is at the same stage. yes, i would rather be single than marrying the wrong person but still i would like to get married one day and live my whole life with and beside her. btw she is still nice and we have it good cuz we had a group project to do together but yeah otherwise no talking. for me im just curious why she doesnt want to be in one and secondly im just scared and idk how to deal with it. there are ppl who were in a relationship but it was so bad they dont want to get in a new one. and also one issue is im a super late bloomer. like last summer was where i changed my whole identiy and focussed on my health, clothes and so… so i can say that i had pretty good glowup. but still all this wont matter cuz at the end everyone is scared to date and i dont even know how to find a pure person like me. like ik if someone becomes my wife, shes my all and everything, not even, if i have kids, would come first. not just as a wife but also best friend and everything. and im not gonna lower my standards cuz then i rather not get married. there is a reason why so many marriages are failing and gen z has just started marrying. idk where this will all lead

so i have a school project where i also have to make a project as a iteration(sprint). now im starting way to late. can you help me make the start date change. as in is it possible to set the start date like 4 weeks ago cuz it wont let me?

hii im 23M and a revert(like 1 month ago). but i havent been in any relationsship nor done anything with any woman. tbh i was mad about it when i was 20 that i didnt do anything but now im happy about it that i kept myself clean. i come from a western country in europe so you all probably know how ppl are here with hooking up or how cheating got normalized. like doesnt matter any religon, any gender does it now. i had chances to be in a relationsship but i avoided it cuz i fixed in my mind that i just wanna be with that one girl i really love and who loves me. but now my question to all girls here is, you girls actually believe in that concept. like having 1 relationsship forever. so many ppl having dating history and me just being hopeless if something like that will ever happen. but also for context i really liked a girl whos muslim but yeah kinda got rejected and thats why i even found religion and god at first place. used to be an atheist but now im a whole different person haha. idk cuz of that girl, im not in a mood for any kind of relationsship but im simply asking are there ppl who believe in that or am i just cooked forever, which i slowly started accepting