u/orlandosunshine

sometimes i’m not sure if i should come out. i’ve known i’m bi probably since i was 13. i know my parents are homophobic. my mother basically knows but told me i was gay and i can’t be bisexual. we don’t really have a relationship or speak anymore (which i am okay with). i’ve had conversations with my father and he definitely doesn’t support. i just feel like if i come out people will assume im saying im bi to cover up being “gay.” which is not true since i’ve liked girls since i was like 5. i just like boys too. i’m 19m and live with my father atm. we don’t really have a close relationship and i don’t want to cause problems since unfortunately i need him for housing and college loans and stuff. i just wish i could be out cause i would feel a lot better. i don’t have much confidence and im generally ashamed to be myself. so that doesn’t help. any advice for how to deal with this?

okay so there’s this one guy at my work who i think is so cute and seems very nice. he’s not incredibly handsome but i’m just drawn to his cute face still. then i met a girl today who i thought was very cute and very much my type. shorter than me, perky boobs, sweet. it’s not the first time but i’ll crush on both men and woman at the same time.

woman are absolutely beautiful. it’s insane how perfect their bodies are. boobs are truly a gift from god or whoever. men are so fucking handsome and sexy it’s insane. i can’t even put it into words how i feel when i see a gorgeous man. i’m feeling very bi today as you can tell and i just need to talk about how insanely hot men and women really are.

i feel like i experience the bi cycle often. right now i am crazy into men. like.. everything about men. i can’t stop thinking about their dicks and just being intimate. it males me feel like i am gay. However, a week ago for like a month i would think about woman a lot, their pussy and breasts etc, and be like “yeah i’m definitely bi.” idk it’s just annoying cause it makes me question my bisexuality when i go a period of time with not much interest in a certain sex. has this hurt any relationships you guys had when your fantasizing about the opposite gender of your partner? do you also experience a bi cycle? does it make you doubt your bisexuality?

i’m not gonna go into great detail just in case. but has anyone had like a fwb type thing with a guy? basically i met this guy and we’ve talked here and there. based on the conversations we’ve had i get the impression he is at least bi curious. i also get the feeling he may like me possibly. when i imagine it i am turned on by the idea of us just giving each other blowjobs. i don’t know if either of us wants a real relationship. it’s also weird cause sometimes i’m attracted to him and other times i’m not. i just feel like he is leading twords having an arrangement like that. don’t want to go into detail in case he saw this. if you’ve done this before how was it for you?

Question. WHY do people who see a male doing things that are feminine automatically assume they are gay? I saw this tiktok of this guy talking about his coming out story. i guess his cousins bf told the family he was gay when he was a 12-year old child cause he liked playing with barbie’s and how he acted. who tf calls a child gay? is there any actual correlation with doing “girly” things and being gay? When i was a child i was very into dancing and my father would say i’m gay because of it. I just don’t understand why we do this? I am bisexual so i suppose he was somewhat right but still. i don’t assume someone is gay unless i literally see them kiss the same sex or something. i’m not gonna lie and say i haven’t made assumptions myself, but i keep them to myself until someone tells me they are gay. i also would NEVER say that to a child. thanks for reading my rant lol.

idk why but for some reason when it comes to woman i am more attracted to their bodies. breasts, ass, etc. but i’m not really attracted to their faces. however, when i see a handsome man i can think he’s hot just by his face. anyone else feel this? am i still bi? is it bad for me to date a girl if i feel this way?