He has good hygiene, keeps house clean, & has high income job. Is he really a narc?

Iv seen posts about how they are slobs etc does this disqualify one from being a narc if they are the opposite of that and not lazy etc ?

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u/pandamakeup — 18 days ago

Mine quickly goes from mean to nice, to nice to mean

There doesn’t seem to be a long period in between, anybody else like this? Silent treatments are very short

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u/pandamakeup — 1 month ago

Are narcs like this? God says have nothing to do with such people.

In the Bible it says:

People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3 without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, 4 treacherous, rash, conceited,lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God— 5 having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with such people.

2 Timothy 3:1-5

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u/pandamakeup — 1 month ago

I don’t know what it’s like to be in a real loving relationship…

I’m 36F and married for 9 years (together for 11 years) to a covert narc. & all of my ex bfs were awful. I haven’t met a guy that I felt a true connection with or can trust.

I think narc or not, it’s hard? It must be nice for those that have found it.

It must be so nice ..

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u/pandamakeup — 2 months ago