u/paperclipmyheart

It seems we are having an influx of new members posting seeking ads.

Please read the rules and FAQs (wiki tab at the top of the sub).

This sub does not allow seeking contact messages. We have another sub for that.

Read through the posts we get so many similar posts to:

* Where do I meet older women?

* What makes a younger man attractive to an older woman?

These posts quickly become monotonous and in an effort to keep the sub "fresh" please do some research in here first before asking. The FAQS also have a huge amount of information shared over the last 8 ish years by our members.

Welcome 🤗

READ THE RULES PLEASE

It's time to revisit the rules. Please make sure you read all the rules and reading the FAQs will help you understand how this community is run.

Mods are volunteers and the amount of repeated removals of each post is overwhelming.

The rules here are very strict and the reason is we are NOT like the usual NSFW cougar and R4R subs.

We enforce our rules because we want to drive our community towards a particular goal.

🟥 That is compatible genuine matches that do not facilitate OF/Porn Content creators.

🟥 That do not facilitate scammers and obvious catfish.

🟥 That are open, honest and genuine as possible.

We do not have anything against OF creators but we try to facilitate genuine matches not people looking for customers.

We do not allow sexual content. So if you enjoy making vulgar/sexual comments and posts please find somewhere else on reddit to post.

#MOST COMMON RULE VIOLATIONS

1. Low effort/Low Quality Posts

Read rules 5&6

Posting a 5 word post is not going to be approved nor encourage anyone to reply. Put some effort into your posts

2. Hidden Profiles

Read rule 14

If you have things to hide we are not here for it. Accounts that hide their profiles usually post in extreme kink and other problematic subs, are scammers, catfish or cheating on partners. Go elsewhere.

There is an argument if you have had people bully you from sub to sub, we get it, but that's not our issue and is not the common experience on here. If this is your common experience please consider how you are engaging with others, maybe the problem is you.

If you have serious issues with this create another account, report their behaviour to mods/reddit, block abusive individuals. People who wish to advertise here must have a reasonable visible history on Reddit so that the reader can do their own due diligence and assess if they wish to respond to you.

If you prefer to have your profile hidden or curated you must make it viewable to others while your ad is live on our sub. Once you no longer wish to receive replies to your add, you can delete the ad and then reinstate your hidden profile options.

3. Vulgarity/Sexual Content

Read rule 7

This is not the place. If you wish to engage in this go elsewhere. You will receive more responses if you are respectful and appropriate. Leave it to DMs if you must.

4. Incorrect Title Format

Read rule 2

If you do not include all the required info in the title our bot simply removes your post.

#AN EXAMPLE OF A TYPICAL SUBMISSION FROM SOMEONE HASN'T READ RULES

- poster posts a 5 word post or it contains sexual/vulgar content, it's auto removed.

- poster then adds 3 paragraphs and does an awesome job of their ad... however they do not have all the required information in the title, it's auto removed.

- poster then adds all the correct title details and everything looks good, however their profile is hidden, mods then have to check and recheck, then it's removed.

This is so frustrating to the poster and a nightmare for mods.

Please actually read the rules to avoid this altogether. Mods are always available to help you with guidelines via modmail but it is your responsibility to get to know our rules and the particular way we provide this community.

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

❗The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

❗Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

❗No posts regarding sμgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let The Hunt Begin!🐾

🌟 IT'S MONDAY!! This is our weekly "Off Topic Post" where you can chat with other members, check-in, tell us how your day is going, what plans you have coming up and generally what's going on in your part of the world. Remember this is our Off Topic post. No questions related to dating etc.

🌟 As a prerequisite to posting in this thread you must take the time to read the RULES & FAQs

🌟 Are you new here? Check out this post too!

🌟 If you don't you risk having your posts autodeleted by the automod bot and bans may be applied.

🌟 This is POST AND OUR SUB is strictly NO Soliciting Contact/Seeking/DM requests. The sub rules still apply across the board and it's expected that you've read them.

🌟 If you are looking to meet someone please go to our dating sub r/COUGARSANDCUBSMATCH and post it there. Read the rules before posting.

#REMINDER:

​

This is a discussion sub - no soliciting contact.

​

If you are seeking a match please go over to our dating sub r/CougarsandCubsMatch.

​

Read the rules/wiki/post requirements before you post/comment there.

​

You can make a stand alone post describing yourself and what you are looking for with 25 combined karma.

​

Or post a brief comment in our weekly **Thursday Roll Call** and a **Sunday Hunt** posts

- 10 comment karma/ASL (age, sex, location) and relationship status required.

​

This is an automated scheduled reminder.

🌟 IT'S MONDAY!! This is our weekly "Off Topic Post" where you can chat with other members, check-in, tell us how your day is going, what plans you have coming up and generally what's going on in your part of the world. Remember this is our Off Topic post. No questions related to dating etc.

🌟 As a prerequisite to posting in this thread you must take the time to read the RULES & FAQs

🌟 Are you new here? Check out this post too!

🌟 If you don't you risk having your posts autodeleted by the automod bot and bans may be applied.

🌟 This is POST AND OUR SUB is strictly NO Soliciting Contact/Seeking/DM requests. The sub rules still apply across the board and it's expected that you've read them.

🌟 If you are looking to meet someone please go to our dating sub r/COUGARSANDCUBSMATCH and post it there. Read the rules before posting.

#REMINDER:

​

This is a discussion sub - no soliciting contact.

​

If you are seeking a match please go over to our dating sub r/CougarsandCubsMatch.

​

Read the rules/wiki/post requirements before you post/comment there.

​

You can make a stand alone post describing yourself and what you are looking for with 25 combined karma.

​

Or post a brief comment in our weekly **Thursday Roll Call** and a **Sunday Hunt** posts

- 10 comment karma/ASL (age, sex, location) and relationship status required.

​

This is an automated scheduled reminder.

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

❗The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

❗Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

❗No posts regarding sμgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let The Hunt Begin!🐾

#REMINDER:

​

This is a discussion sub - no soliciting contact.

​

If you are seeking a match please go over to our dating sub r/CougarsandCubsMatch.

​

Read the rules/wiki/post requirements before you post/comment there.

​

You can make a stand alone post describing yourself and what you are looking for with 25 combined karma.

​

Or post a brief comment in our weekly **Thursday Roll Call** and a **Sunday Hunt** posts

- 10 comment karma/ASL (age, sex, location) and relationship status required.

​

This is an automated scheduled reminder.

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

❗The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

❗Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

❗No posts regarding sμgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let The Hunt Begin!🐾

🌟 IT'S MONDAY!! This is our weekly "Off Topic Post" where you can chat with other members, check-in, tell us how your day is going, what plans you have coming up and generally what's going on in your part of the world. Remember this is our Off Topic post. No questions related to dating etc.

🌟 As a prerequisite to posting in this thread you must take the time to read the RULES & FAQs

🌟 Are you new here? Check out this post too!

🌟 If you don't you risk having your posts autodeleted by the automod bot and bans may be applied.

🌟 This is POST AND OUR SUB is strictly NO Soliciting Contact/Seeking/DM requests. The sub rules still apply across the board and it's expected that you've read them.

🌟 If you are looking to meet someone please go to our dating sub r/COUGARSANDCUBSMATCH and post it there. Read the rules before posting.

#REMINDER:

​

This is a discussion sub - no soliciting contact.

​

If you are seeking a match please go over to our dating sub r/CougarsandCubsMatch.

​

Read the rules/wiki/post requirements before you post/comment there.

​

You can make a stand alone post describing yourself and what you are looking for with 25 combined karma.

​

Or post a brief comment in our weekly **Thursday Roll Call** and a **Sunday Hunt** posts

- 10 comment karma/ASL (age, sex, location) and relationship status required.

​

This is an automated scheduled reminder.

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

❗The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

❗Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

❗No posts regarding sμgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let The Hunt Begin!🐾

🌟 IT'S MONDAY!! This is our weekly "Off Topic Post" where you can chat with other members, check-in, tell us how your day is going, what plans you have coming up and generally what's going on in your part of the world. Remember this is our Off Topic post. No questions related to dating etc.

🌟 As a prerequisite to posting in this thread you must take the time to read the RULES & FAQs

🌟 Are you new here? Check out this post too!

🌟 If you don't you risk having your posts autodeleted by the automod bot and bans may be applied.

🌟 This is POST AND OUR SUB is strictly NO Soliciting Contact/Seeking/DM requests. The sub rules still apply across the board and it's expected that you've read them.

🌟 If you are looking to meet someone please go to our dating sub r/COUGARSANDCUBSMATCH and post it there. Read the rules before posting.

#REMINDER:

​

This is a discussion sub - no soliciting contact.

​

If you are seeking a match please go over to our dating sub r/CougarsandCubsMatch.

​

Read the rules/wiki/post requirements before you post/comment there.

​

You can make a stand alone post describing yourself and what you are looking for with 25 combined karma.

​

Or post a brief comment in our weekly **Thursday Roll Call** and a **Sunday Hunt** posts

- 10 comment karma/ASL (age, sex, location) and relationship status required.

​

This is an automated scheduled reminder.

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

❗The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

❗Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

❗No posts regarding sμgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let The Hunt Begin!🐾

#REMINDER:

​

This is a discussion sub - no soliciting contact.

​

If you are seeking a match please go over to our dating sub r/CougarsandCubsMatch.

​

Read the rules/wiki/post requirements before you post/comment there.

​

You can make a stand alone post describing yourself and what you are looking for with 25 combined karma.

​

Or post a brief comment in our weekly **Thursday Roll Call** and a **Sunday Hunt** posts

- 10 comment karma/ASL (age, sex, location) and relationship status required.

​

This is an automated scheduled reminder.

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

❗The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

❗Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

❗No posts regarding sμgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let The Hunt Begin!🐾

🌟 IT'S MONDAY!! This is our weekly "Off Topic Post" where you can chat with other members, check-in, tell us how your day is going, what plans you have coming up and generally what's going on in your part of the world. Remember this is our Off Topic post. No questions related to dating etc.

🌟 As a prerequisite to posting in this thread you must take the time to read the RULES & FAQs

🌟 Are you new here? Check out this post too!

🌟 If you don't you risk having your posts autodeleted by the automod bot and bans may be applied.

🌟 This is POST AND OUR SUB is strictly NO Soliciting Contact/Seeking/DM requests. The sub rules still apply across the board and it's expected that you've read them.

🌟 If you are looking to meet someone please go to our dating sub r/COUGARSANDCUBSMATCH and post it there. Read the rules before posting.

#REMINDER:

​

This is a discussion sub - no soliciting contact.

​

If you are seeking a match please go over to our dating sub r/CougarsandCubsMatch.

​

Read the rules/wiki/post requirements before you post/comment there.

​

You can make a stand alone post describing yourself and what you are looking for with 25 combined karma.

​

Or post a brief comment in our weekly **Thursday Roll Call** and a **Sunday Hunt** posts

- 10 comment karma/ASL (age, sex, location) and relationship status required.

​

This is an automated scheduled reminder.