Hiya,
I’ve started getting back into hiking after a recent breakup, and was wondering if anyone had any hiking app recommendations? I currently use AllTrails but am finding it takes some weird routes, and isn’t the easiest to use when out and about. Also if this could be a uk based app/ one that works here as well as around the world that would be amazing!
Thank you :)
My ex and I (24/25) broke up nearly 2 months ago after 5 years together because I broke his trust.
I know most people will probably say once trust is broken it’s done, but I still can’t help wondering if people ever genuinely change after a breakup and if that ever changes how the other person sees them later on.
Since we broke up I’ve changed a lot honestly. I left the whole environment connected to everything that happened, changed jobs, started running, signed up to do a charity hike, and generally just feel healthier mentally than I did before. Not in a “look how amazing I am now” way, more that the breakup forced me to actually confront a lot of things in myself.
About a week after the breakup I wrote him a letter explaining everything honestly, but he basically said he didn’t believe me and couldn’t try again.
We spoke on and off for a couple more weeks after that mostly about logistics, but we’ve now been in complete no contact for 3 weeks.
I still love him a lot, so I guess I’m wondering:
if you ended a long-term relationship because trust was broken, were you fully emotionally done at that point?
Or did you ever still love the person and reconsider things later once time had passed?
My ex and I (24/25) broke up nearly 2 months ago after 5 years together because I broke his trust.
I know most people will probably say once trust is broken it’s done, but I still can’t help wondering if people ever genuinely change after a breakup and if that ever changes how the other person sees them later on.
Since we broke up I’ve changed a lot honestly. I left the whole environment connected to everything that happened, changed jobs, started running, signed up to do a charity hike, and generally just feel healthier mentally than I did before. Not in a “look how amazing I am now” way, more that the breakup forced me to actually confront a lot of things in myself.
About a week after the breakup I wrote him a letter explaining everything honestly, but he basically said he didn’t believe me and couldn’t try again.
We spoke on and off for a couple more weeks after that mostly about logistics, but we’ve now been in complete no contact for 3 weeks.
I still love him a lot, so I guess I’m wondering:
if you ended a long-term relationship because trust was broken, were you fully emotionally done at that point?
Or did you ever still love the person and reconsider things later once time had passed?