u/pdom10

The top players all spent money on him

What’s the odds of getting the #3 pick in the first 4 best ball drafts of the year?

I feel their random draft order isn’t so random
1 superflex draft
3 puppy’s

Just hit a homer with Kevin and it didn’t animate; first time I saw this. Is this because of the new player Trevor?

I’m not sure if the guy I played had him in the outfield.

WTF 😂 that knuckle does u turns

I’ve started doing audits of the people in my life and how they make me feel. I also audit my behavior to get a good sense of how anything I may be doing could be effecting them negatively (I’m an over-thinker and can be sensitive). Now, I’m not a score keeper of good deeds, that would lead to extreme resentment but it gets to a point where you just feel an imbalance. Even though I give because it makes me feel good, you start to feel drained because what you’re giving is finite - time, energy and money.

I’m the listener, kind, dependable, thoughtful, always consistent friend- almost to the point I feel robotic like I’m being controlled by a joystick. I had a kind of epiphany with my BF when I brought up how I haven’t heard from our other friend in quite some time. The other friend is the type of person you check on and they will reply 2 days later or not at all and I said that I’m close to throwing in the towel on that friendship. My BF started to defend her and basically said I want too much from people. That’s when it hit me that I was around low effort individuals and my high effort was taken for granted. I know we all have different lives but defending a low effort friend and scrutinizing a high effort one in the same breath was a slap in the face to me.

The last 2 group outings I politely declined- the latest one was yesterday. I got bombarded with texts last night asking how was I doing, am I ok, what did you do today etc, not really because they cared but when you withdraw your value increases (supply and demand). Many people also start to imagine that the reliable friend may be waking up and suddenly fear they could lose you.

I used to look at treating people sort of how trickle down economics was designed. In TDE you’re supposed to give corporations tax breaks and the whole economy boosts, thus creating an abundance of jobs. I treat my friends the same. I pour into them with a hope of just half of what I’m giving trickles down to me in the form of reciprocity. But just like TDE I’ve learned that this theory is a failure. I just recently realized that’s it’s better to keep whatever it is i am giving them for myself. (Duh moment)

So if you’re a solid friend try not to get discouraged by friends who lack reciprocity or seem they don’t care. Just know your traits are precious and they’re lucky to have you.

p.s if push comes to shove you can always do an audit of your circle and fire any slackers from your life. 😏