How do I stop cutting off people who have wronged me?
So today has been a really rough day with getting into an argument with my sister which resulted in me blocking her because she was yelling at me and blaming me for something i didnt do. Then i wanted to tell the guy i was dating about what happened then he just laughed at my problem and said when am i going to unblock her. I told him she does this to me often and im tired of it, but he still didnt take my problem seriously. We ended up having an argument about that which i decided to hang up and now i have the feeling of not wanting to be with him.
My question is, how can i stop the urge of constantly cutting off people when they have wronged me in some way? I love being alone, and so being alone feels peaceful rather than dealing with people but then i dont want to have no relationships in the future either. Any advice would be helpful.