u/pebble_puddles

Hey seniors, I'm in 2nd sem rn and of wt I've heard the clg expects u to join any club after branch entry and the certificates given during the participation in the club will help ur resume stand out. Then there are these certification courses that u do during ur ig 3 or 4 yr that are worth some credits.

In amidst all this how do u find out wt you acc want to do after BE. Ppl say higher education till like PhD is better some say get a job then study.

And even abt placement how do u crack that interview!!!!!

Tbh hearing all this since day 1 feels so overwhelming, could u guys just tell how all this was for u from sem 1 to acc passing out of the clg...

So me and this guy we were in a relationship it was all online. After a point he kept saying that he feels too horny and needy everytime he looks at my pics or talk to me. He asked me for my nudes and I was like I'm not comfortable sending it. He would become sad and say 'are u not comfortable with ur own bf' , ' don't u even trust me one bit' . Um at first I was like maybe I'm at wrong but then realized he was in a way gaslighting me into doing things I'm not comfortable with in the name of 'trust' , 'bf'.

Now that I think back even tho I told him no number of times , he would just make it look like I'm the bad guy for not understanding his pov. Well I never sent him the nudes and we broke up too.

The weird thing is he would always say I want to visit you not to see me and spend time with me but like to have sex. He would be like ' I'll come visit you when I horny and we can have sex'.

He would say I love u so much that I can't even see porn, cos u come up in my mind. Now idk wt to make of all this.

All I feel now is that , I'm happy I didn't give into those things and stuck with my boundaries.

Guys cherry on top he told that he loves me within a week. And then he asked out at 2 weeks mark. After we broke up I was feeling if I did the wrong thing by breaking up or not. Cos when I told him this is getting too sexual for me and thigs are going very fast he pull a 'I don't have much time left with me' card. He said his liver is failing and that he might die in a couple of yrs and that will effect his life. I felt very bad and I didnt want to leave him so I was like we can be frnds . For that he was like nope. But if u agree can we have sex b4 I loose my ability to get an boner. OMG. at that point I was like dude are u fr. Like I've told no multiple times and u still keep going to sq one. That was the final strike and ya....

Have u guys like been to malpe recently.. it's so different now, especially that club kinda thingy is so annoying it legit takes away the calmness of the ocean breeze. Even the littering has become too much...