u/penguinssteal

Evaporation line or faint/early positive?

Evaporation line or faint/early positive?

Not sure if this is the place to ask so i do apologise if it isnt, but the past week and a bit I have been very off, been feeling nauseous all the time, sore abdominal back and hip pain, feeling like im getting a cold but not actually getting a cold, insomnia and feeling very emotional and moody over things I never do, I gums have been very sensitive and even bleeding sometimes when I eat which has never happened before and a weird taste in my mouth, and ive found recently the smell of tomatoes and quiche makes me almost vomit which I work in a cafe and never used to be an issue, peeing all the time too.

So I took a test just incase and I looked at it only for the first minute and saw a negative line so put it in the bin, I know I should've waited the full 10 minutes incase it changed but was in a rush and didnt think about it, then like an hour or hour and a half later it caught my eye in the bin and saw the faint second line, I do have another test to test again in the morning tomorrow but im not sure if this looks like faint positive or just an evaporation line as I honestly dont know if the line appeared within the first 10 minutes or a lot later after that, thank you to anyone that can help! :)

u/penguinssteal — 1 day ago

So me 21F and my partner 24M have been together about 7 months now, known eachother for a year, while we were in the talking and dating phase we would have a lot of cheeky flirtatious texting and stated he has a high sex drive and is into a lot of kinky things, I am pretty adventurous too and up for the same things as him, but when we actually got together it was completely different.

From the start to now, the rare times (like once a month) we do have sex, theres no foreplay, theres absolutely no kissing or anything romantic or passionate, just a minute or 2 then its over, it makes me feel like he sees it as a chore that he has to do so I dont mention it. And each time I have brought it up we talk through it but nothing changes.

Even just day to day the only kisses we have is a peck on the lips or cheek, everytime I try to just do something a little more romantic or passionate its shut down, I've tired multiple things, different lingeries, tried to bring toys and stuff in, tried talking to him, even tried a stupid pheromone perfume, nothing. I get the occasional 'you look nice' and then a little kiss, but nothing else.

It's now making me feel very insecure and gross, and i have expressed this to him but I dont seem to be getting anywhere.

TLTR: Boyfriend doesnt seem attracted to me and makes any intimate thing feel like a chore rather than something romantic that he wants to do.

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u/penguinssteal — 4 months ago

I 21/F have been with my boyfriend 24/M for over 6 months now (known eachother about a year) and he's just moved into his own place, I stayed over last night but couldn't sleep at 3am because of his snoring, got bored and decided to play on his phone but then got nosey and just peaking around, everything completely normal, hes a nerd so his social media is all pokemon and things like that, bearing in mind this guy is so sweet and lovely, no sign of anything dodgy, he has a 3 year old too. But... when I went on his reddit, there was a could very strange searches:

'sex extortion'

'sex extortion bumble'

'sex extortion snapchat'

Even if he was trying to have some personal time and find inappropriate stuff I can't wrap my head around why out of everything those searches were there, there was nothing else slightly concerning at all on the phone just that which is just confusing me, and i doubt it was relating to general interest in true crime around that topic or anything, I dont see him until the weekend.

TLTR: boyfriend has very very odd recent searches on reddit

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u/penguinssteal — 4 months ago