Exporting r/thesopranos vocabulary to the rest of life

I called someone a stunad today and nobody asked what I meant so I just rolled with it. Sometimes I say "You go about in pity for yourself" or "Yeah but you gotta get over it" in other subreddits, not realizing where I am, and I think it makes the world a bit better.

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u/permacloud — 6 days ago
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Early fraud warning -- do you just refund and hope for the best?

I received an early fraud warning for a customer who bought a course from me. She appears to be a real person (signed up for my blog months ago, opens the emails I send).

I emailed her once to ask about it but have not received a response five days alter and so I'm just waiting. I haven't followed up.

The purchase was on 5/25, and the early fraud warning came on 6/26. I wonder if it is either she didn't recognize the charge and requested a chargeback, or wants a refund but instead of contacting me she is just trying to void the charge.

What's the best thing to do in these situations? Just refund now? It sounds as though these early fraud warnings come a few days before a chargeback -- is that true? How does refunding help in that case?

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u/permacloud — 6 days ago