u/pillsandcookies

I have a decent amount of clothes but can never seem to understand what looks good with what! For example, I have a pair of lighter wash wide leg jeans, and for some reason everything I pair with it just looks wrong. It’s either too cropped which emphasizes my thicker midsection, or too long which makes the jeans look sloppy. Also, the cut of the shirt confuses me… should I go button up? T shirt? And color… I have some cute wide leg blue and white striped pants and can only ever pair a white shirt with it 😩 I always end up going a basic t shirt (typically long sleeve) with tapered pants (usually athleisure brand) for my casual office dress code, but I want to branch out to wearing my wider leg pants, or some nicer tops. I prefer a relaxed, somewhat oversized look, but not sloppy, which is where I’m failing. For reference, I am 5”4 and wear a size 10 in bottoms and medium/large top with a smaller bust. Are there any helpful “formulas” or websites/bloggers out there to help me with a basic idea of good fashion sense? As a mom to two preschoolers I am not as up to date with fashion as I want to be. I recently went back to Pinterest for inspiration and it’s full of AI now with no real information! So any help is welcome.