I want to eventually get the peony in the full size and get rid of the baby and add the greenery. I have the butter yellow on the way and need to call it quits lol. The purple is by far my most used because I have so much stuff in purple including my truck.
I have left a message with the dr. It is not painful.
I didn't take a before boob photo, didn't realize that until after lol, but just imagine the stomach in boob form lol.
I'm now 11 dpo, took this pic yesterday. Honestly feeling great. Main issue is my groin being swollen, it's annoying! But I'm feeling good enough that I'm forcing myself to take breaks. Ran errands in town today, cleaned the house, etc. I'm shocked at how easy recovery has been.
backstory, married 25 years, together 28. 5 kids, I was a stay at home homeschool mom at this request, divorce was final in February, no real arguing or anything, very peaceful and we are still very friendly now. I have no real idea why he left to this day, he just "wanted to be single" I have never wanted the divorce and still love him but one person can't hold down a relationship.
I've been fairly open on my (private with few people on it I might add) social media about how I've dealt with things, career path I'm starting, how college is going, how putting the kids in public school is going, needing to get on depression meds, and how lonely I am (We moved out of state to his dream location to live 3 months before he left me so I know no one here). I'm not dogging him in any of my posts, just open about how life is kind of kicking me in the butt but I'm navigating it.
He "can't handle knowing I'm lonely and sad". Um, did you expect me to be skipping through rainbows after having my life turned upside down? lol. "oh cool! the love of my life dumped me and I'm having to navigate the heartbreak while also starting completely over with everything in my mid 40s! Fun!" Like, we can each move on in our life but how in the world did he expect us to all have no problems with it? One of our kids is really mentally struggling now (they are 18 and live with me) and he is truly shocked that our adult kids are affected by it. (neither of us have been negative to the kids about the other, it's just been a lot for them and kind of made them question a lot) My mind is honestly blown that he thought we would all be just fine with the life changes lol.
Anyway, no real rhyme or reason to this post, just venting about how someone blew up our lives and didn't expect any repercussions from it.