u/pinkportfolio

Hello ladies 💕 I‘m engaged to my provider boyfriend, he pays all my bills and Beauty expenses, we constantly travel around the world and stay in luxury hotels (he has his own company), I don’t have to Cook or clean.

Due to being raised by slavic ever suffering pick me‘s plus a father who demanded my mother work for him and didn’t want her to see her having more ease than him bc it’s “unfair”.. I every so often get the urge to offer to Cook for him to which he always replies my time is more valuable spent on something Else/cooking is not worth the hassle and that we can eat X in a restaurant.

I eat in restaurants twice a day and I still feel guilty.

I‘m seeing a therapist who’s helping me get rid of this pickme mindset very well but every so often I get scared of acting too selfish and not serving my man in any way other than him having the privilege of being seen with and validated by other men.

It’s like I’m constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop and for him to go one day “Aha! This was a test and you failed! You are a selfish egocentric useless woman after all and now I will abandon you!”

Logically I know it won’t happen or that if it will I will find another but my nervous system disagrees… could you please help me reframe my mindset? 💕

Both wizardliz and MJ are incredibly short sighted.

That Dior bag MJ bought and bragged about for 6k? Try reselling it, good luck getting even 2 k for it.

If she truly was smart, she’d only shop items that 100% retain and grow value. Super limited edition items like a pink iridescent Chanel bag, hunt rare Birkins or rare watches.

Same goes for wizard liz. The 150k she gave to Landon - she could have invested into the S&P 500 and provided her son an entire college and housing fund over the next 20 years.

She‘s blowing through all her money right as her reputation and following is taking a total nosedive. The majority of her audience will never hold her in the same high esteem they once did - and the 13 year olds who still blindly worship her today will soon grow up and smarten up too.

If she truly wanted to help women and help HERSELF, she wouldn’t just say „get money, use men“, she’d talk about HOW to allocate those funds.

My boyfriend pays for 100% of my expenses, my health insurance, all our travels, my extensions, all dining out, constant vacations, my massages, everything.

I work from our home running my own property management business and make 4k net. Guess what I do with every single penny? Shove it into AI infrastructure stocks that the biggest silicon valley funds are currently buying up and meticulously watching and repeating their quarterly report purchases.

Why? Because we could break up, he could stop funding me or god forbid something happen to him - how will I pay for my future children’s expenses? I‘m 27 and yet invest like doomsday could hit tomorrow because I‘m not shortsighted or delusional.

Why haven’t any of these „superior to us“ gurus ever even ONCE talked about long term strategy other than getting more surgeries?

Infuriating. Young girls are watching and will think beauty is all it takes.

Yes, my beauty got me into my relationship but it’s not a guarantee for anything in my future!

Beauty without impulse control, long term thinking and doomsday planning is a useless liability.

> she starts modeling at 13 (mom flies her to milan). spends her teens working europe + japan, and says her first flight to the US was literally on epstein's jet at 16 — packed with girls who looked 14-16 — which freaked her out.

> at 17 an older agent, paulo zampolli (~15 yrs older) recruits her to NY and they start dating. controlling + abusive basically from the start — he cancels her jobs so she'll travel with him, surveillance, physical stuff, tons of coke.

> she gets pregnant at 23. instead of a green card he funnels her into a UN diplomatic visa, so her entire legal status is tied to him. that's the leash — every time she tries to leave, he allegedly uses the kid + her visa against her.

> she finally gets out around 2023, moves to miami, restarts her life. then it implodes: raided, arrested over some clinic/medical-practice accusation, jailed, and ICE grabs her straight out of jail → ~3.5 months in detention → deported to brazil.

> now she's in a custody war over her son, says her ex engineered the whole arrest to take him, and is — naturally — writing a book about her healing journey and helping other women.

> same story as Liz, just way darker.