Seriously rocky??

Really? you could have chosen to make out with this scrumptious man. But instead you obsessed over making out with sad sack Schwartz who clearly wasn't into it at all?? Watching her and Schwartz make-out actually makes my skin crawl.

Obviously we now know that this was all just a smoke screen.

u/pokey1202 — 11 hours ago

We've all had this friend

When a break up drags on for an entire year, your friends will check out and lose their compassion. Especially when your status in said relationship flip flops on the daily. I had a college roommate who was in a relationship like this. I became so cynical and jaded after months and months of the same conversation.

And then they get mad at you because you're not giving them the sympathy that they crave. 😩🙄

u/pokey1202 — 19 days ago

Never says sorry....

We know Jax is the worst. But we also know he's at least capable of faking remorse. HE NEVER SAYS SORRY TO BRIT IN THE ENTIRETY OF SEASON 6. Seriously folks....watch it back. He doesn't apologize until the reunion. Even after the audio recording surfaces, he never apologizes once. He immediately jumps to blaming her.

It's so sad when you compare it to the way he treated Stassi after cheating and how he groveled to Stassi's mom. He clearly just did not respect Brit or her family at all. He didn't respect her enough to even FAKE remorse.

u/pokey1202 — 1 month ago

Vaginal Health: Itchy labia minora--why and how to help

Let me preface by saying I have an appointment with an OBGYN but it's not for 3 more weeks. So I'd love to seek out some advice in the meantime.

My labia minora has been itchy (on and off) for the past 6 weeks. Sometimes the issue goes away for a few days and then reappears.

Background info:

-36 years old in a committed/monogamous relationship

-No bad odor or discharge

-Appears to look the same as usual.

-No fever, burning when I pee or other concerning symptoms

-I haven't changed my lotion, detergent or soap.

Its just ITCHY and annoying! Do you have any thoughts on what could have caused this or at home treatments while I wait to get into my OBGYN?

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u/pokey1202 — 1 month ago

How do the confessional/talking head shots get filmed?

I've always wondered how the confessionals get filmed. They wear a couple different outfits -do they shoot all the confessionals in the same outfit on the same day? Or do they come back and just try to style themselves consistently?

A good example is Raquel in the blue knit dress in season 10. We see her in it in her confessionals throughout season 10 and then the explosive one after the reunion. Does she come back to shoot more confessions in the same dress or did they do all of these in the same day?

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u/pokey1202 — 3 months ago

If Tom hadn't cheated...

Would Ariana ever have left? I'm watching s9 where Tom's ego and arrogance is at its peak. You can see it's getting harder for Ariana to defend him when he rages at Katie and LaLa. But I just don't think she would have ever left him. What do you think?

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u/pokey1202 — 3 months ago

Do I need to fill in more?

Started on native grasses/ pollinators garden. Most of these plantings are pretty immature and I know they're not going to get big for a year or two. But I also want to suppress weeds as much as possible.

Do I need to fill in with more plants?

I've got salvia, lupine, catmint, sedum, creeping thyme, coneflowers, black-eyed susans, feathereed and foxtail

u/pokey1202 — 3 months ago