u/polarbearsexshark

Basically I’m writing a short story and I had it in my head to have a character with the name “Desire” and I figured Tsonga would be a good language to go with as a friend of mine inspired the character (male btw), I’d rather not bring it up to people ik irl just yet so which is why i came for advice. Is “Navela” actually desire? As in longing for or thirst for and would it be suitable for a name in that regard? If not what would be closer to Desire. Thanks!

I’m decent at math and been doing fairly good in terms of gambling by applying said math on sports picks but I’m honestly bored of it and looking to go into card games at casinos. My goal is to get banned for card counting, just sounds like a cool story to have in my locker, really. Anyone know anyone or has been banned for this?

Yesterday was my birthday and my ex texted me a whole bunch of angry shit because I’ve been reposting about her on my TikTok, which I will admit does not make her look flattering but just read more and you’ll see where I’m coming from. But for some reason it got stuck in my head, I feel disoriented almost because being disliked by someone I loved feels super weird especially because I wasn’t the one in the wrong in the relationship. I’m gonna be honest and admit part of this thread is ranting because I need validation that I wasn’t the asshole, because I’m so nice I keep gaslighting myself into thinking what happened was no big deal. Some of the major issues that lead to our breakup (which I repeatedly forgave her for)

Texting another dude: She had an old fling/friend from before we got together that I didn’t mind until I realised she gave him more sexually than she did me and I got insecure about it so she offered to block him. I then caught her texting him multiple times throughout our relationship and because she cried and said she was sorry and felt guilty I forgave her. One of these occasions was during my birthday actually, and when I caught her she lied to me and said he was texting her because he tried killing himself. (I swear to god I’m not stupid I’m literally just too nice)

Forgetting my birthday: She forgot my birthday, and wished me a birthday on the wrong day. Pretty self explanatory

Sending her fling a video of me giving her head to make him jealous: Again, pretty self explanatory and I’d rather not get into it fully

Putting no effort into the relationship: I did everything and I mean this with no exaggeration, gifts, outings, makeup etc etc and she literally couldn’t even be bothered to get me a manga volume I wanted

Etc etc and much more I’m probably forgetting/probably embarrassed to admit

But through all this I can assure you she’s not a bad person, just a genuinely terrible girlfriend and that’s why I’m so confused at myself on why I can’t stand her not liking me anymore

Anyone in a similar boat (I’m aware being too nice and forgiving isn’t the move the next time btw I just need to hear people for now)

Hey everyone, I was wondering if anyone, especially among the younger crowd could help me out with good, fairly priced restaurants in the city, preferably in the South or Sandton areas. Nothing crazy expensive since I don’t have it like that but somewhere nice yknow? Any suggestions would be a great help, thanks!