Bad hostel etiquette or am I being dramatic?
2 situations that happened the past 24 hours in my hostel.
I’m in a female dorm, 4 women total.
First situation- last night I arrived back to the hostel around 11pm.
I unlock the front door, see a women from my dorm talking to her friend.
She sees me, stands up, and by the time I walked towards the common area she turned to go to our room.
I see her collecting her shower things and ask - are you using the bathroom now?” She responds “yes”, and I say “okay, I’ll wait for you then”.
Personally, I would have asked if my hostel mate wanted to use the shower first , but it was the rushing over to use the shower soon as she saw me coming that irked me.
Second situation- my alarm goes off this morning. Another girl in the dorm heads to the bathroom. No worries, I can be patient. Finally, she is in there for 20 minutes. No communicating, no asking if I want to go first cause she will take longer, etc… at minute 17 I knocked on the door and she came out at 20 mins after entering.
Again I personally wouldn’t take 20 mins in peak morning hours, or I would communicate with my roommate- like if she needs to take a shower and I only need to brush my teeth, etc.
Both these situations really bothered me because in their shoes I would have been a bit more considerate and communicative.
What do you think- am I exaggerating or is it a bit rude?
EDIT- Thanks for the perspectives. I have been backpacking on and off for 10 years, mainly in hostels, just never had these situations happen both within one day. Also there was only 1 bathroom available to use.