My husband not attracted to me
I am here because I feel so lost and helpless. I am 28(F)and I believe I am good looking women and everyone around me says that too including my husband. my husband (29) and I dated each other for 3 years and got married just 6 months back. Initial stages of our dating ,things were great sexually. We use to have sex most of the times we meet and it was honestly matching what I use to desire. Slowly things started getting very weird , though I use to initiate there use to be no response from him. I am a very shy type of person and I usually get in the mood when I know my man is into me and attracted to me and after 1 year of dating this initiative completely faded away. I confronted him multiple times but all I got is so many excuses like we were in long distance relationship ( shouldn’t that be more of a reason to have sex?) , just not submissive enough (like the fuck ? Should I just pretend to be this weird submissive where I just keep agreeing to things where I am not ok with ?) he literally said I jump on him and kiss him too much on the cheek and give him wet kisses on the lips , yes I do but isn’t that something nice to receive from a person you love ? . I love him so much but the interest I see him get when it comes to smoking or drinking beers I don’t see it in me. I can’t be like this person who keeps him happy all the time by agreeing to all his decisions and then get him interested in me. I want him to genuinely be attracted to me , cherish me and love me as I do about him.And I believe just 6 months into the marriage I am not asking for too much here . I believe he has extremely low libido and I asked him to take some hormonal supplements but he straight up refused. Is it really normal to have 1s a month sex ? Please any ideas on how I can fix this