u/princesspeachh77

We were thinking of having a bigger wedding but my partners family is complete drama, his mom kept trying to argue with us on where we she thinks we should have it & mentioned temples when I’m not the same religion and why we shouldn’t have it somewhere particular because it would be too expensive for everyone to get there etc, & asking me weird intrusive questions all during our engagement celebration dinner, so fun. We decided ultimately we’re eloping on our favorite beach. I know this will cause resentment and strain but I don’t think I should care. She’s always been extremely passive aggressive & never made me feel welcome.

It will just be me, my partner & our dog, we’re thinking either renting a waterfront Airbnb/vrbo & having the ceremony on the balcony or doing a 30min ceremony on the beach, greatly appreciate tips & if anyone has done this in the past? I’ve heard horror stories about ppl getting their rentals cancelled last minute, does it matter if they have super high ratings/reviews?

I noticed once I took a break from social media etc I put that focus on shopping and building my wardrobe. I donated a bunch of clothing so I felt like it was okay to keep shopping and placing orders but it’s become so excessive like I need every cute top I see, I always have visions with cute outfits I spot and want to plan out when to wear them etc it’s gotten too crazy😭 I have so much nwt clothes I haven’t even worn it’s embarrassing 🙈 I try to justify them with all the sales & couponing but ya it’s bad lol is anyone else like this? There needs to be a therapy group for this fr lol

I’m already finding amazing sales on items I’d like to gift for Christmas. When does everyone usually start Christmas shopping?