u/pumpkinpie_11

So we started dating in 2025 and I've had only one ex before him I dated in 2024 and exactly 1 year after that I started dating my current boyf( now ex)

so what happened was he was v insecure about my ex he was insecure that I loved someone before him and I really understood him everytime reassured him he used to break up w me over that a lot and I told him a lot of times cried a lot that I feel like he doesn't think I'm worthy enough for him to stay he said that's just how he is and kept doing it.

So my past relationship was of 2 months only and we never met irl. But me and my current boyf was now dating for around 8 months and he asked me while we were about to yk share it w each other if I had shared it w someone else in the past and I lied and told him no which was v wrong I was embarrassed and ashamed and didn't how to tell a guy who's this insecure about just me being in a relationship before him that I had shared nudes in that relationship asw. Only shared it like 4-5 times. Either way it was just wrong.

So two months after that he asked me again about it and he said things like you can just tell me the truth and I'll be okay and stuff and I was alr guilty about lying to him so I came up front w it and told him about it he freaked out which was understandable he was lied to but he wasn't upset about the fact that I lied to him and didn't tell him about it he was upset because I shared it in a 2 month relationship.

He said things like "if I didn't share it i wouldn't expect my wife to do it either" and " how could you share it in a 2 month relationship" and "if he had known earlier he never would've dated me" and stuff like that. So we had a major fall out he apologized for saying it and stuff and I apologized for not telling him earlier we were in an on and off relationship for about 2 weeks and yk exactly 2 days after he apologized he said things like that again like " he was 15 too but he didn't do it" ( I was 15 in my past relationship) and " that I fingered myself to some other dude how can he ever be okay w that" and buncha other stuff idr atm so wtv happened he apologized again and I forgave him😍 again.

So we got back tgt in late Feb 2026 and things were going pretty okayish whenever I used to say I don't feel really good abt this he used to say we'll do this tgt and stuff. around mid-late March he started acting up. stopped calling me texting me whenever we got in an argument brought up my past and in one of our argument told me "no one would stick w me because of how I am" I cried in front of him he apologized for saying it saying that he was not that serious while we were literally arguing.

He kept saying this exact thing that " no one would stick w me" even after that in our every argument for a month after apologising every time for saying it anyways so this happened he used to call me retarded and stuff in our every argument and I used to cry a lot after him asking him why he's doing this. this was around April ig and the reason he gave for all of his shitty behaviour was because I had shared nudes in the past and he wasn't okay w it. So he broke up w me. We were still talking every 2 days and from about a week I was getting this feeling that he's been watching porn behind my back so a little backstory (he watched it once when we were around 3 months in,confessed about it and promised to never watch it again) I asked him and he was watching it from about 2 weeks while he was w me and the excuse he gave was that I had shared nudes in my past relationship and when I said I just need some time we'll talk tmr morning he started shaming me for my past again😍 w things like "he thought I was untouchable for 10 months got to know the truth and it was the opposite" and he said a lot of things he was Obv saying I was so easy for that lol.

Anyways two weeks after that we talked and kind of got back tgt we had an argument and he said that "I sent it in two months who's next" and that he atleast sent his nudes in 8 months to me and I'm so easy easy I sent it in a 2 month relationship before him and some other disgusting bs. we broke up.

but we were still talking and about 3-4 days after that he asked for my WhatsApp because he didn't trust me and I said no for some days but gave it to him he read everything in my WhatsApp we slept on call tgt. I woke up and he has me blocked on everything saying he can't accept my past so I Obv text him from my other acc asking what happened so he made up a lie at first the truth was he had texted my ex to ask him for details about the nudes I sent him in my past relationship and my ex first told him no and tried to talk him out of it but he pestered him and my ex told him about it( some days before that he asked for details from me and I had alr told him about it way back but he wanted to know about every picture I sent to my ex in detail and what'd we say to each other and stuff like that so a week after that he pulled this fuckass move) he apologized for texting my ex but even after that he kept saying shit like that and I'm just done disrespecting myself like this. AITAH?