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I’ll try to be brief with context, I’m just really torn and my head is a mess rn. Need advice from fellow adult lesbians. Should I bring her?

Relationship context: we’ve been together for 4.5 years and she’s met my family including my grandfather. They love her. But we’ve been fighting for several months and are in couples therapy and doing better but not out of the woods. I want her to be my forever partner but I can’t say for sure we won’t break up. I just really really want her support rn. I dont know if i can do this alone

Family context: my immediate family and my closer extended family know and love her. She hasn’t met all of my more extended family tho and idk how homophobic they might be. My grandfather was very religious and historically homophobic but ultimately accepted me and us. I also dont know if it would upset any of his friends or like if it’s bad to bring her to a funeral in a Catholic Church generally?

I would of course check in with both her and my family and prob keep her out of the smaller more intimate family moments but I just want external thoughts first on whether I should even ask

Would prefer a rigid case that snaps on to the laptop itself. If that doesn’t exist, what are some good travel sleeves?

People who started lifting after top surgery, I know everyone is different but wondering how long it took you to get visible pecs? I’m 2 months in to trying to bulk up my chest. Also happy to hear any advice.

I definitely have growth in the muscle around my shoulder and above my nipples but lower and middle chest seems to have no growth. I’m doing upper body lifting 3x a week including flat bench press, incline press, and flies.