u/pyrite_FeS2

I'll go first.

When i was still single, i didn't wanna experience being cheated on or having an abusive partner. But now that I'm in a relationship, my horror story about love that terrifies me the most is my partner still thinking about his ex all along while we are building a life together.

Alam niyo yun, yung you guys are happy and stable, and he's the love of your life. But all this time at the back of his mind, iniisip niya sana yung ex niya yung kasama at minamahal niya. O di kaya iniisip niya pa rin what could his life be kung yung ex niya yung nakatuluyan niya. And if ever there's a chance for them to make up, hindi siya magdadalawang-isip na iwan ako.

Or much much worse, he promised to his ex to love me. Na minamahal niya ko dahil hindi niya kayang i-break yung promise.

It's so scary to love someone fully tapos akala mo parehas kayo pero he's not yet done with someone. Im on my luteal phase guys, this makes me cry kahit hindi ko reality huhuhuhuhuhu no one deserves this.

Kayo?

Hello. I don't know if i used the right flair and if I'm in the right sub. Can someone please enlighten me about these: deeply protected and guided by a higher power, very strong spiritual support system, divinely protected.

Sa mga nagpatawad pa ng cheater (any kind of cheating, e.g., micro-cheating), anong nangyari? Was it worth it? If naging okay pa kayo, paano? Im curious kung paano niyo nakayang magbigay pa ng second chance, third, or ilan pa.