u/quixxol

So I have 202 pulls. I already have pity on both the weapon and character banner, enough for me to get guaranteed Odette and one 5 star weapon. Is her weapon worth it? I think it’s really pretty. I do have some other CR swords but they’re on characters I frequently use. Does the travelers sword work on Odette and can it be useful on her? Or should I just try to pull for her weapon? I’ll have 75 wishes left over if I loose my 50/50 on Odette’s banner.

Context: My stepmom and dad got married when I was around 10. Maybe younger. My stepmom and I did not get along at all. We both clashed a lot. I would be sent out of the house if I did something wrong. She would get mad at me for making little mistake, saying I didn’t have a brain, and didn’t want to see me so she sent me outside. I had difficulty eating certain foods when I was younger which led to me having food shoved down my throat at one point. That wasn’t fun, but is what it is. I’d be told my bio mom died because she didn’t eat healthy (my stepmom would use this to get me to eat healthier, since I struggled eating fruits etc because of texture) even though she died of colon cancer which ran in the family. All of this caused me to grow very depressed and I tried to commit. Went to family therapy, things didn’t improve. Moved in with my grandparents, my bio mom’s parents, and have been with them pretty much since. Tried going back to my stepmom and dad for a year, left again because although it was slightly better, much didn’t change.

Anyways, my dad and stepmom now have kids. All younger than 5. Great for them. I don’t see my dad much. I’ll meet with my dad at lunch every few weeks, but that’s as far as I’ll go. He’s brought up the fact he wants me to have a relationship with my half siblings. I’ve only met 1 of their kids briefly. I get where he is coming from and I have absolutely nothing against them. They’re just innocent children, but I also recognize I don’t want to be around my stepmom. If I were to see my half siblings, I’d have to see her. I wish things worked out between us, me and my stepmom, I’ve tried, but realized in the end I’ve still not forgiven her for everything she did to me as a child and cannot face her. I feel like TA for not sucking it up and seeing my half siblings. AITAH in this situation? Do I owe my dad this?

EDIT: Thank you all for the very sweet comments. I appreciate it. I’m going to take all these comments into consideration and meet up with my dad soon.

I’m 19F and my boyfriend is 20M. We game all the time, we’re in discord servers, etc. Normal early adult things.

Anyways, I’m in a discord server last night and some random person was flirting with me. They were trolling, you could tell. I said i had a bf and let it go. Wasn’t a big deal to me nor do i care to let those things get to me. I went to sleep after.

When i woke up my boyfriend texts me in the morning saying he went and read back my messages in that server to see what time i went to sleep. I don’t know why he did this. He could’ve just asked me what time i went to sleep.

Fast forward, he started going on about seeing the stranger flirt with me. He starts asking me why didn’t i tell him or block the guy. I told him I didn’t tell him because i had just woken up and completely forgot about it. I also knew the guy was trolling so really didn’t care or let a stranger affect me.

He then starts saying how if someone did that to him then I would want him to say something. I mean, sure. But at the end of the day if it was someone minor then you’re not obligated to tell me. Again, it was early this morning and at first I had no clue what he was talking about. If I remembered after I had woken up there’s no doubt I would’ve told him.

Afterwards he then messages the stranger. This is where I’m uncomfortable. The situation was already dealt with last night. It was nothing serious, an obvious troll I just ignored after. But my boyfriend took it upon himself to message them and insulting them. I feel weird that he’s gone this far. This has never happened.

I then told him I thought he was going too far. I explained to him from my perspective it wasn’t that serious, a lame troll trying to be funny and that the situation was already dealt with. Now my boyfriend is calling me weird for not thinking the guy was weird for doing that. I mean sure it’s weird, but I just didn’t let it get to me.

AITAH here?

EDIT : My boyfriend now is saying how I am taking the trolls side. Last night, the troll was saying things like “oh buy me this for you and me”. Blah blah. Stuff like that because I was showing gaming merch. I thought it was lame and funny. It’s a troll, they want people to take them seriously. I didn’t really care so I didn’t let it bother me. My boyfriend is now saying how it’s so eye opening to him that I am defending this troll when I simply am just not letting it get to me.

I’m going to start this off sweet and simple.

I’m 19F and my bf is 20M. We’ve been together for almost a year. We’ve had a pretty decent relationship. Not many argues, thankfully, but recently that’s changed.

I was at work after hours. I’m a receptionist and have to stay for an extra 2 hours at work incase a client from the West calls. Anyways, my boyfriend called me while I was watching something. He was getting off of work so that’s why he called me. I told him hello, that I was watching something and would call him back in a second. He says okay, hangs up and I watch my video.

Fast forward maybe 20 minutes later I call him back. He’s at home now and is eating, so texts me he can’t call. I said okay. He then states he’s frustrated with me because he assumed I would call him while he was still driving. He lives about 10 minutes away from work.

I explained to him that I told him I was watching a video and I did call him back after. I don’t see why he should be frustrated at me that I did not call him in his “timeframe.” I literally called him back, it’s not my fault he couldn’t pick up because he was eating.

He’s now saying that he’s also frustrated because I seemed “happy” to call him then didn’t because I was watching a video. I wasn’t the one to call him, he called me. I just answered to tell him I would call him back because I was in the middle of something.

So, Reddit. AITAH for this?

My bf (20M) and | (19F) have been together for almost a year. We talk all the time. We text all the time, call all the time, hangout, etc.

Sometimes, I'll be on my game and I won't respond to him for about 10 minutes. I cannot pause it so | try to finish what I'm doing as quick as I can so I can get back to him. Other times we will be talking, I’ll talk on my discord server at the same time, then come back and text him about 10 minutes later. He isn't happy I stop talking to him and feels like I prioritize talking to people online rather than him. We already talk and hangout so much.

Usually, it goes something like this:
We will be texting on the phone. I send something, switch to discord for a tiny bit, then come back to text him. I do the same in discord too. Talk to bf then come back and reply to person. Most of the time I have my notifications on so I will reply right away to him. Sometimes, I have my notification's off and don't see his message so then I'II reply. Other times I’ll see he messaged me back but finish up my convo quickly then get back to him asap. I always text back within 10-15 minutes though. Never longer than 30 minutes to an hour.

He says I don't prioritize him and am prioritizing strangers over him. Keep in mind this hasn’t happened often at all, maybe 1 or twice and I usually respond to him much quicker now.

I already feel like I priorities him so much. I text him all the time when I can, I call him every chance I get, I hang out with him all the time. I don't mean to hurt him or make him not feel like a priority.

He will talk about me "vanishing" because | leave to go relax for about 10 minutes. He has complained about it, saying I should tell him what I'm doing first then leave.

AITAH here for not prioritizing him enough?

EDIT: I don’t believe he’s being controlling, I think we a misunderstanding each other. We view our priorities differently I suppose. I don’t want to fight with him, but I want to be heard by him too. Don’t really know what to do. Just feel like crying at this point, unfortunately.

2ND UPDATE: we made up. he believes why he was in the wrong and understands where I’m coming from, I hope. We’ve been fighting a lot lately.