Too many things and tired
45 yr old single woman here ! I have a job and pays ok but I’m soooo much behind in the job market! I get half of what everyone else gets.my father is a Parkinson’s patient and I’m the only caregiver. I have a brother in the picture virtually but not really 🤷🏻♀️. I hired a full time attendant at home because I’m getting tired with office and house work and his incontinence /cleaning and everything . And now that attendant has her own demands. I make a one pot lunch daily and leave for office by 630/7am after packed lunch and meds for dad . She doesn’t like one pot meals. And is not eating. And as soon as I come home , she makes a face . Compains of headaches . Lack of food . What not. So I have to make two separate items. She’s Not even taking care of cleaning properly. She mops in dad’s room and floor is just wet and slippery . I asked her to mop with a dry cloth again and she just switched on the fan to max and came out. I went after a while and dad is shivering and covered himself with some towel and curled up. He could have got up and switched off The fan. Or she could have mopped properly. Today at 620am she started arguing for a lunch box because she doesn’t have a proper box if I’m coming home in the afternoon. I gave her something but it disturbed me so early morning. I really feel like crying now . I took a day off but I came to office to study. I paid for a course with live classes thinking I will listen. Now I’m in office on my leave day, didn’t listen to a thing in the class. It’s such a haphazard life … I’m planning to study somehow for a few hours. Go home, call the agency. Hopefully they will refund the money. And send her back first thing. Don’t know what next . These small things are just unending …. I wish my mom was alive but she left a few years ago. Had to get rid of an idiot husband. Surprisingly , he was also just like this attendant. 🤦🏻♀️ maybe it s a ME problem !