I really struggle with my ptsd and feelings of worhtlessness. I had a good couple of weeks worshipping her (im new) but now i feel lost. I feel like shes not with me anymore and maybe I angered her.
Idk where I fit. I have mild joint pain and subluxes around my menstrual period but thats it. My friends that have heds and hsd diagnosis suffer SO MUCH. idk where I fit but im more hypermobile than any of my friends with a diagnosis
Im pregnant at 6m pp. Please give me your experiences. Pregnancy and post partum. Then parenting the kids as well. Im scared.
Im scared. I got pregnant 6m post partum. Im unsure what will happen to me. My hsd is mild. But im so scared I wont survive this for some reason. Anyone have experience with this
I have mild hsd. But im scared im pregnant at 6m post partum. Im scared ill die. Please give me your experiences if you have one.
Please tell me how your experience if you have one
Ive always been double jointed. Ever since I was a kid. Ive always been praised for it. I excelled in dance. I could do every flexibility thing easily. Never thought anything of it.
When I was a teenager I got pregnant from abuse. I didnt notice until I was 32 weeks. I just thought I lost my cycle from stress. People encouraged me to travel to terminate the pregnancy but I didnt feel comfortable doing it that far along. (Im pro choice so dont come for me.) Being a teenager in the system i didnt feel I had the means to raise him properly or safely so I placed him in an open adoption.
I recently had my 2nd baby (im 25 now) with my husband and pregnancy hit me hard. I dont remember my 1st pregnancy well. But this pregnancy i had hip and shoulder instability. At the end I was crying daily because of pain. 4 week post partum I subluxed my shoulder picking up my baby and it hurt so bad. Now at 6m post partum I feel mostly normal again.
But my birth sons mom asked me if I had heds because hes almost as hypermobile as me and she suspects mcas. I feel so guilty not only for my 1st son but for the baby I just had. I didnt realize I had something serious. I dont know how to help him either. I dont have mcas. 😭 I feel so stupid for not realizing this sooner. I got on a waitlist to see a geneticist so I can get evaluated and diagnosed he might be able to as well.
Ive always been double jointed. Ever since I was a kid. Ive always been praised for it. I excelled in dance. I could do every flexibility thing easily. Never thought anything of it.
When I was a teenager I got pregnant from abuse. I didnt notice until I was 32 weeks. I just thought I lost my cycle from stress. People encouraged me to travel to terminate the pregnancy but I didnt feel comfortable doing it that far along. (Im pro choice so dont come for me.) Being a teenager in the system i didnt feel I had the means to raise him properly or safely so I placed him in an open adoption.
I recently had my 2nd baby (im 25 now) with my husband and pregnancy hit me hard. I dont remember my 1st pregnancy well. But this pregnancy i had hip and shoulder instability. At the end I was crying daily because of pain. 4 week post partum I subluxed my shoulder picking up my baby and it hurt so bad. Now at 6m post partum I feel mostly normal again.
But my birth sons mom asked me if I had heds because hes almost as hypermobile as me and she suspects mcas. I feel so guilty not only for my 1st son but for the baby I just had. I didnt realize I had something serious. I dont know how to help him either. I dont have mcas. 😭 I feel so stupid for not realizing this sooner. I got on a waitlist to see a geneticist so I can get evaluated and diagnosed he might be able to as well.
My birth son is 6. I recently had my 1st child im raising. I had my birth son as a teenager. Now im married with a career.
Ive wanted to get tattoos for all my kids. I really want to get one for my birth son but I feel like maybe its be inappropriate since im not raising him. We have an open adoption i see him once month and we're close. He always gets excited when I come and loves to see my baby. Ive considered maybe asking his parents what they think or leaving a space and then asking when hes an adult if hed be ok with it.
If you're an adoptee what would you think? I always see people with open adoptions getting lots of hate on social media and called selfish etc. I dont want to make things worse for him.