u/rainchii-

hi i already posted this on mcgill's sub but im gonna post it here again bc i didnt get an answer

i got into one of the science programs in mcgill and picked out all my classes already, but people keep saying that if i dont get my ib diploma then the school will revoke my offer, but i dont know if this is true at all.

i was predicted a passing grade but my exams went horribly, my only safe exam is business hl. my admission letter didnt say anything abt obtaining a mandatory ib grade, only to "generally maintain your level of academic achievement upon which you were admitted and obtain your high school diploma."

maybe everyone has different conditions idk pls let me know if u guys have an answer thnx gng

i ordered a concealer and it was supposed to be delivered today, but it just said that delivery attempt was unsuccessful and is en route to an access point. but i was home, and there was no knock, they didn't ring the doorbell, and i didn't even see a ups truck on my street?

i got another email saying that the delivery needed a signature, but they didn't even attempt to come on my street. the closest access point from my place is 30 minutes away. has anyone had this happen to them or anything???

so im asian (16F) and i recently graduated highschool and our entire grade had a group photo. the photographer was really rushed and nobody really knew where to stand because no instructions were given, so everyone just assumed they were in the right position. the photographer took like 1 picture only and called it a day, and all the teachers rushed us to line up to get ready for the grad ceremony even though we waited 30 minutes in line. the picture was emailed to parents, and when my mom got the picture she saw that i was blocked and the girl in front of me's grad hat was right in my face. she then started getting mad and she sent me almost 200 messages telling me how i "hid myself on purpose" and "i disrespected her". mind you, i had NO idea i was going to be blocked off - the photographer told us that if you can see the camera then you don't need to move, and i saw the camera just fine and wore platforms so i could be taller. i didn't know the girl was going to block me because i didn't seem blocked off, maybe only my lower face a bit.

so then she spammed me and wrote me tons of insults calling me a peasant and someone of lower class (it's like a slur/insult in my language) and said that she won't take care of my anymore and that i'm a failure, along with other things like "what kind of daughter are you? i paid so much money for your tuition and you decide to treat me like this by hiding in the picture?"

she's always been like this ever since i was a kid, she always guilt-tripped me because she has authority and control over me so whenever she was angry, she would take it out on me and everything is my fault, calling me spoiled and a bitch and whatever. i'm just so fucking confused as to how this is a big deal? like yeah, it's a graduation photo i understand, but she's acting like i failed school or something. i explained the situation to my grandparents and they tried talking to her, but she refused to listen and continued calling me insults and other shit. my mother has never been there emotionally for me but she calls herself the "best mother anyone could get" because she buys me things i like, and i'm grateful obviously but sometimes i just don't want stuff that can be bought with money. i understand that its normal for asian families to be emotionally distant but i just think my mom genuinely is a narcissist, idk what i should do because she can go on and on and on for hours (she once ignored me for 2 weeks because i wouldn't show her my art and she got mad). i never really even liked her all that much because she wasn't there for me as a kid and my grandparents were the ones who raised me so im much closer with them, and they're not as judgemental. like lowkey i can't help thinking that shes a narcissist and idk what to do now that its the next day but whatever gng 🥀