

Trying to escape
I’m scared to ask this question because I’m scared the answer will be that my guy isn’t happy but I’m trying to figure out why my veiled recently has started acting erratic like he wants to escape randomly. He’ll scale the entire screen and if I open the door he’ll climb out on top of his enclosure. I check his humidity and temperature constantly, he eats and drinks water fine and is otherwise healthy. The only thing I can think of is I currently have the large enclosure and I’ll soon be upgrading him to the extra large enclosure so he has more space 🤷♀️ any advice?
I want to upgrade my chameleons enclosure but I don’t want to do it myself, is there a place I can order an enclosure already set up with real plants?
reddit.comI recently made a post here asking how bad it would be for me to make a third withdrawal from my 401k (terrible idea, I get it now) I was advised that I should make a post detailing my figures in order to get real advice. Any of you kind financially literate people that have spare time to help me would be greatly appreciated, I’m a young single parent trying to figure life out, I know I have a spending problem and I am currently in therapy to help deal with it. But idk if any of you have advice on how to get out of this hole I’m in. Here is some more info:
My income varies as I work a commission based job but I calculated my income for the last 5 months
January - $7,945.77
February - $5,143.78
March - $7,354.85
April - $4,975.74
May so far - $578.59
My monthly bills NOT including gas/food is $3,709.46 approximately (fluctuates due to utilities)
My credit card debt is $5,557.12 not including the $2,000 I owe in federal taxes. Those 2 things are all I owe.
I don’t know how to budget!! I don’t know what to do!! Do I file for bankruptcy?? I’m super frustrated, any feedback would be greatly appreciated (again I know I need to fix the source of the problem which is my emotional spending)
Long story short I’m terrible with money (I know that I need to fix the source of the problem and be responsible) I make good money, a little over 100k a year, but due to my irresponsibility’s I have a lot of debt. I took a loan against my 401k two years ago that I’m halfway through paying off (I believe this is the best way to take money out but I can’t take another loan out until the first one is paid off) and I made the decision to withdraw $14,000 in February to pay off all my debt and get back on track aaaaaand I got myself right back into debt but only about $6,000 this time and on top of that I owe $2,000 in taxes due to the 401k withdrawal - I have no money saved and I’m back to living paycheck to paycheck. How BAD would it be for me to withdraw $6,000 to pay off my credit cards and will they even allow you to make multiple withdrawals? No judgement please I know this is a terrible situation and I really plan on getting my act together, thank you for any advice