u/ratsy_basty

▲ 37 r/ftm

Why do we typically seem to grow neckbeards more than cis guys??

Obviously cis guys can grow neck beards too but every trans guy i know gets beard growth under our chin way before anything else? Ive had a mustache i like for awhile but I just started getting a neck beard im shaving off everyday 😭

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u/ratsy_basty — 10 hours ago
▲ 271 r/writing

Yall ever re-read your book so many times you wonder if it actually sucks?

I finished the first draft of my first full length novel around a year ago. I'm planning on sending it out to beta readers and an editor eventually, but i keep feeling like its not ready to be read by anyone. I keep re reading and editing the entire thing and changing stuff over and over.

I think I'm on my 6th read thru. In my first read through I was like "wow, this is pretty good, I just need to tighten up some stuff and read it again!" And slowly ive started to hate it. I feel like its so awful I couldn't even imagine paying someone to read it lol...

Is this universal or am I just becoming self aware of how bad my shih is 💀

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u/ratsy_basty — 14 days ago

I dont care if the facial hair makes me look ugly I just want to try and look like a dude. I tape and my chest is fully flat. Ignore my fuckaas hair rn im going thru it 💀 I have the vibe im getting turned down for jobs bc im trying to present as a cis woman and they can tell im trans in some way. I want to try presenting as a cis guy instead but I also feel like I dont pass enough. I have a really low voice and get called sir by strangers but idk if its just gonna make me look more trans by going my my masculine name.

Idk im just trying my best 💀

u/ratsy_basty — 17 days ago