u/redsizzles

unta no required ang tanan government officials na magcommute at least once a week, para mabal-an nila how inefficient their city’s transportation is.

here in gensan, kung naglain imong gibati unya gusto nimo muulig sayo, di ka kauli within 30 mins ra. it would you take you an hour or two para makauli sa inyo. kung paadto kag trabaho, you would need to allot an hour for the commute, kay hastang ka-traffic dinha sa may silway. dili lang pod traffic imong kalaban, naa pod ning “puno” system sa mga toda nga di mularga kung dili puno ang tricycle. though understandable, pero sometimes frustrating kay nisakay gani ka aron madali. totally defeats the purpose of a vehicle.

and the worst of all, ang pamasahe. dugay na gani ka kaabot sa imong destinasyon, init na gani, naa pa jud mga driver nga abusado kaayo muhangyo ug pamasahe. sa tinuod lang parehas ra baya ta ninyo tanan gapaningkamot. dili porket kami ang pasahero kay mas kwartahan mi ninyo.

naa lagi daw fare matrix na gigawas ug gipasab-it sa mga tricycle, pero WALAY IMPOSITION. igo ra announcement. kay ngano? mahadlok na di butuhon sa mga driver sa sunod na election? mag-away na lang ang commuter ug driver kay puros naay katungod na gusto ipalaban, while atong government officials gapahayay sa ilang fully paid ug naka-aircon na sakyanan.

it’s so frustrating. gasto, kapoy, ug makahilak if commuter ka diri sa gensan. imong sweldo nga minimum ra gani tungaon pa nimo para ra sa pamasahe.

kanus-a ang pagbag-o ani?

hello po! looking for shops in gensan na nagaparent ng barong. so far barong heneral pa lang nakita nako. any recommendations will be much appreciated. thank you!

Problem/Goal: My boyfriend does not see me as someone that he wants to protect and keep safe.

For context: I went out with a girl friend last night and during our walk (papunta kami nun sa plaza near the cafe we initially hung out), we encountered a homeless man na sobrang aggressive. Sinigawan niya kami and out of fear, kumaripas kami ng takbo. After ensuring that we were safe na, I called my LDR boyfriend and told him everything that had happened. I was laughing the whole thing off pero sobrang kabado pa rin ako kahit na safe naman na kami. I decided not to drop the call kasi 10pm na din nun and I wanted to have someone to talk to while going home. Not even 5 mins after my friend and I said our goodbyes, my boyfriend told me na "sleepy" na daw siya. It was upsetting to hear, pero I told him na sige, mauna na lang siya. He told me na hindi naman daw talaga siya matutulog, he'll just doze off pero I can still call him. I said ok, then dropped the call.

I kept updating him during my commute. Pero nakarating na lang ako sa bahay, I received no response from him. Tinulugan niya talaga ako. The next morning, alam niya na agad ang kasalanan niya because he said sorry.

Am I overreacting for being upset? Na-off talaga ako over the thought that he did not make sure I got home safe that night, considering what had happened. Hindi naman ako mahilig gumala sa labas so rare lang talaga yung times na late ako umuuwi.

Need ko advice niyo. Nagre-retweet na kasi siya sa twitter ng quotes saying, "one of the richest thing in life is having peace." XD

Previous attempts: Nangyari nato more than once, and I told him nung last time na as my partner, ensuring my safety should come naturally to him. Hindi ko na dapat siya sabihan na tawagan ako during my late-night commutes kasi common sense na lang yan bilang babae ang karelasyon mo.

wa ko kahibaw if may subreddit ba for sarangani pero diri na lang ko mangutana because i know suki ang henerals sa beaches dinha sa glan.

can you recommend a nice resort na budget-friendly pero nami ang amenities? planning to have a birthday getaway on september and gapangita kog resort somewhere in glan where i can enjoy my alone time. thank you sa mga makatubag!