so I am starting my pfrda prep, my second attempt. last year I gave interview, didn’t qualify. i have CGB content (bharhmastra) but I want another coaching content too so I do not miss on anything . Anybody willing to share? like the other person can use my content as well and I can use that person's account? no monetary transaction involved
I need an outside perspective on a situation with the guy (M23) I’m (F27) dating. We met on Tinder and started talking in March, and officially got into a relationship in mid-May.
When we first started talking in March, he told me he had been single "for a while" and had been using Tinder off and on for three years. However, a couple of core issues have just come to light, and the math is not mathing:
Problem 1: The Hidden Timeline & Emotional Unavailability
He recently let it slip that he actually dated someone for a month this past December. To make matters worse, I found out that back in March (right when we started talking), he was actively telling his friends that he wasn’t able to move on from that December ex. So, he told me he’d been single for a while, while secretly harboring feelings for an ex, and then jumped into a relationship with me two months later in May.
Problem 2: The Defensiveness and Gaslighting
When I noticed the contradiction and brought it up, he didn't own up to it at all. Instead, he got incredibly defensive, shut down, and aggressively claimed, "I have told you all the truths." He is turning it back on me instead of addressing why he hid the fact that he was emotionally unavailable when we met.
I understand he didn't owe me love right when we met in March, but I feel like he lied by omission to get me into a relationship, used me to get over his ex, and is now punishing me for catching him in a lie.
Is he just trying to intermingle/rewrite the timeline here, or am I being delusional and having too high of standards? Does it sound like I'm just a rebound?