After a first date if you tell a girl in person let’s do this again and text her after saying let’s hangout again. Do you think a guy means it ? Or is he just saying it just like that. Just wondering from a guys perspective .
When I was 14 I was visiting my mom’s sister and her husband abroad. We were there for their daughter’s wedding. Anyways , the night of the reception I had gotten ready quickly and was sitting in the living room as everyone was still getting ready. My aunt’s husband (he was in his late 50s at the time) comes out and asked me to help put his watch on him. After I put his watch on, he said he has some money for me. Before he gave me the money he was like give me a kiss first and he then kissed me on my lips !!! I was shocked I was 14 and never even kissed anyone before . I felt very uncomfortable. My sister saw it , she was a lot younger than me and didn’t understand what happened. The whole trip he kept holding my face telling me I’m cute etc.. it was really uncomfortable and I didn’t like it. A few years later when I was 18 we were all on a trip to California for another wedding. We were all waiting outside before entering the hall, he then comes to me and says quickly give me a kiss before anyone sees. And he then kissed me again on my lips. I was so uncomfortable again and I was very innocent I didn’t fully process what happened. Well years later I’m now 28 , I ended up telling my parents a few years ago of what happened. My aunts husband passed away a few years ago before I told my parents what he did to me. Should my mom tell her sister what her husband did to me?