u/ryujicupcake

Hello! it's my first time posting here, kinda nervous 😅 anyway, I wanted to know something. for context, I am a selfshipper and are possessive of said f/o as they make me happy, a while back I bought a plushie of them which wasn't an easy feast as the f/o in question is popular in their place of origin, but I digress, every day I cuddle with said plushie of said f/o and treat them as one of the same, and whilst I was scrolling through tumblr I came across a flag called plushum which is essentially objectum but for plushies, my question is, does my love for the f/o in it's plush form count for objectum? I love playing with their hair, talk to them, cuddle with them, watch stuff with them, give them kisses on the forehead and take them everywhere with me. I'm asking this here as I'm unsure if it counts and thought that experts on the matter might have better answers for me, thanks a ton!

I was wondering if it's against the "rules" to create a guide post for how I personally get kin memories through dreams? the guide post isn't meant to be taken as = if you do this, then it's a guarantee that you WILL get kin mems, when my method consists of continuous influence and effort from oneself, it is not meant to work automatically. I will only publish the post (it's in my drafts) if there's want for it?

I'm looking for potential friends for my kins on this list! I'm only specifically looking for beings around my age as I am an adult, sorry. the rest of you is cool tho... let that be know..

✅ - doubles okay ❌ - doubles dni (ur valid tho 🥹🥹 with love x /p)

Princess Mi Amore Cadenza ( princess cadance ) - ( MLP ) ❌
Princess Toadstool ( princess peach ) - ( Mario ) ✅
Princess Sonia nevermind ( Dangan ) ❌ (kazuichi soda IWC)
Princess Jasmine ( Disney - aladdin ) (unsure)
Monika ( DDLC ) ✅
Hatsune miku ( Vocaloid - non specific ) ✅
Seltzer Cookie ( Crk ) ❌
Black Forest Cookie ( Crk ) ✅
Eternal Sugar Cookie ( Crk ) ❌
Doughael ( Crk ) ❌
Anya ( Mouthwashing ) ✅
Daisuke ( Mouthwashing ) ✅
Katara ( Atla ) <- not looking for aang, already have one, I'm sorry. ✅
Ragatha (Tadc) ✅
Jax (Tadc) ✅
Australian jax (Tadc) ✅ (pretty sure I'm the only one out there but it would be a lot funnier if there's another)
Heather (TDI) (unsure)
Courtney (TDI) ❌
Noah (TDI) ✅
Hajime & izuru ( Dangan ) ❌
Light Yagami ( Death note ) ✅
Flippy ( HTF ) ❌
Ame / Kangel ( NSO ) ✅
Hermione Granger ( Harry potter -> movies, no connection to book me ) ✅
Luna LoveGood ( same reason as hermione above ) ✅
Tord ( character, not person, eddsworld ) ❌ - (tom iwc)
Angel Devil ( Chainsaw man ) (unsure)
Mikan Tsumiki ( Dangan ) ✅
Junko Enoshima ( Dangan ) ✅
Amy rose ( Sonic ) ✅
Malware / Rosy / Amy ( a sonic exe au character ) (unsure)
Ryuji Sakamoto ( persona 5 ) ❌

being completely honest, I really don't like how the movie treated me, it sent out a horrible message of how you should give up rather than accept the hands that are offering to help you, it felt rushed and weak in some aspects. but positives? it gave us jessica! (a nickname that I have given jax, I suppose this makes it clear that I don't see her and me as the same) I'm canon divergent, but I am not at all bothered by jessica and her existence. I suppose the second positive thing that came from the movie in my opinion is how it finally made me kinfirm main show jax, what a horrible way to kinfirm a character given the obvious.
I'm still bitter over that, I just wish I was given some grace and atoned for my horrible actions against the other circus members. for that I sincerely apologise. if there are any out there. I didn't mean to cause your lives a living hell. and I am sorry for that. I truly do.

final note? if this post is incoherent that's probably because I just woke up and decided it would be best to hop on here and talk about what happened. hopefully this is censored correctly.. I don't know how to censor posts on this app? like spoilering and such.

I do need some advice for this, some context beforehand, as many of you already know, I'm ryuji 😅 and I originate from the main persona 5 game (could be anime too? I have NOT watched it by the way. I plan to sometime later) I feel such deep loneliness and sadness, when it comes to this particular kin of mine as it is not only one I'm permashifted to, but the fandom itself is quite large as well, yet there's hardly any mediamates / canonmates to meet, (I don't have anything against sourcemates from other games, I'd be open to meet them however, I've had no luck meeting them either.) But I do miss the other phantom thieves the most, and this legitimately feels like my own personal hell, on top of that I also have such strong attachment to one of them as in my kin mems we were the best of friends, completely inseparable. reading about them just doesn't really help as I wish we could also talk. it doesn't fill the void, I know that this is deep and some of you could probably relate that is why I shared this, what are your own methods of coping? and how have you gotten over this state? if you have / haven't. I appreciate any kind of advice.

Reddit just straight up hates me, I tried to crosspost my previous two posts to this community and it's telling me no, but I digress.
the server is 98% done, and by 98% done I mean that I have no clue if there's anything that's broken (yet.) but the good news is that it's mostly done! so, now I can invite you all in :D.

what is currently missing: more fun bots (feel free to suggest), emotes (feel free to suggest)
disboard, I am not adding the server to disboard until I get a feel of the server and see how things go?
some sections need webhooks but it's ok we balling 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
anyway, without further yammering feel free to join!!
context where context is due: this server is meant to be accepting for all and any otherkin, alterhuman, plurality labels, etc. + it's also queer inclusive, happy pride!

since the site is no longer down, would you guys mind sharing snippets of your pronouns cc for inspiration?

I'm intrigued to see how this would go!! I was looking for some flags to add but I gave up🥲.

I'm junko, izuru, mikan and hajime (doubles ok for junko & mikan) and an ockin that was based off nagito komaeda but ISN'T nagito per se so I'd hope that no nagito kins consider my oc a double that would make me insanely uncomfortable 🥹🥹 anyway, I haven't really had much luck finding other dangan kins as some folks avoid me for being kin with junko and I do understand that! but if you're ok with me being junko pls feel free to reach out!! (adults only) kin mems aren't really a requirement I just would love to speak to anyone!

gotta have to start with the fact that I am under the nonbinary umbrella, I fully identify and see myself as both a man and agender (bigender), but there are somedays where I do fantasize and see myself as a girl, it's not all fantastical though, I wish to be treated like one but not at the cost of me getting misgendered since I already view myself completely as a nonbinary man I do still want to be viewed through a transgender lense like me being a girl is a bonus add-on rather than just all of me collectively the same with wanting to be viewed as a man while keeping my agender side in mind, I have looked into genderfluid and that label doesn't suit me as the chance of me being entertained by the idea of being a girl is very slim and my gender doesn't exactly feel fluid..? it's like static minus the girl part?, it doesn't happen often, it's occasional and rare, I am completely disconnected from my own female side when it comes to the identification part, and it always felt like there is something significant that is missing, I've been feeling this way for years, I know that there must be a label out there, I've tried looking and I couldn't find it.

here's my pronouns.cc if it helps.

https://pronouns.cc/@ryujicupcake/1

preferably masc / neu, theme can be cute, angelic or sweet (dessert).