u/s1nrat

Not sure if this is the right place to post but fuck it. My partner and I have a pretty good relationship. We don’t fight that much and we do things for each other. They are my best friend. I love them. However we’ve been together almost 10 months and I think they’ve touched me like 4 or 5 times. Our sexual dynamic is usually me taking care of my partner fully(which I enjoy very much) but after they cum, they never ask about me. We just move on with the day. Whenever I’ve asked about it, they just mention that they don’t wanna ask or make a move. That I have to do it for them. That felt like they didn’t desire me enough to go out of the way to do something about it. I want them to want to. Maybe I’m overreacting idk

So my partner and I have been together for almost a year now. And at the beginning I wasn’t very comfortable receiving certain types of affection. I would just have really bad dysphoria about it. (For better context, my partner and I are both trans).So we didn’t. I love being able to take care of my partner and focus on them. Which again I prefer because I’m more of a top regardless. But as time has passed and I’ve gotten more comfortable with my partner and more comfortable with my body(thank fuck for hormones and the gym) which in turn meant that I was open to maybe receiving again. Whenever I had that convo with my partner, they seemed 100% interested. Since that convo, I think they’ve actually made moves on me maybe 4 times. In the entire relationship. Whenever I bring it up, I feel bad. They get upset and tell me I’m not happy with them and it’s not enough so I drop it. But it just happens again. We have sex and after I’m just not thought about? Idk it just happens all the time now. I feel so undesirable