Why would you not want a diagnosis?
I saw my PCP and got a referral to a geneticist. She asked me why I wanted a diagnosis. I came up with whatever I could think of. If I need surgery again, it would be important. It will impact how I treat my wrist* and injuries going forward. It could impact my neice and nephew too, as i sort of suspect my niece may also have autism.
I understand it doesnt change how we treat my hypermobility, but there can be more to it. Yes, its a label. But why is wanting that bad? Why is it a problem?
To be fair, she didn't seem upset with my desire. She didn't come off negative or judgemental. She was fine saying I have HSD.
*I have a cyst from a sprain. My ortho said a steroid shot might be next, but it may rupture the ligament. I'd love to hear similar experencies!