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Me and my husband have been trying to conceive since October 2025 I’m 25 and he’s 27 we have had no luck and it’s just getting draining each month for me every like twinge I feel I get my hopes up thinking it might be implantation and (doesn’t be) this month me and my husband decided it be best if we get a fertility check of course we can go through NHS but I know it’s a long wait I did my research and decided we will go through private instead I had a phone call this morning the lady just explained the process I have vaginismus so that doesn’t help knowing I have to have a internal scan but the lady did explain I’m not the only one who has this and they will support me with this to top it off my period is late and acting weird I took numerous of tests and it’s all negative I had a bit of hope before paying so much that I be pregnant before we go ahead but of course doesn’t look like I am I’m not sure if I’m making the right decision

Yesterday when I was vacuuming I got a stabbing feeling it happened then after a while it happened again and didn’t happen again it was noticeable for me to react and be like Ouch it’s the next day and obviously I know not all women bleed during implantation my tissue is clear so I took a random strip test I know I should have used my morning urine but it’s just playing in my head so I took a test and no line at all should I assume I’m out for this cycle

Hi I’m 25 (F) me and my husband have been trying for a baby for a few months now and my period are basically right on track they start when they need to predicted by the app I might be one or 2 day late but that’s normal and I also just use clear blue ovulation kit the pink one to track.
I was told by my doctor once my period have ended after 5 days your in your fertility window and that’s when you should start trying so that week is when I use my ovulation kit to track when I’m about to ovulate just to make sure we are definitely trying them days I also buy a new ovulation kit the pink or even the purple ones every month it’s really expensive but due to few months ago I found out the same digital stick thing I been using is just going off my previous months so I don’t want to risk actually missing my ovulation. If that makes sense anyway this month I got my period and I waited 5 days after I finished to start trying and we did I also started tracking my ovulation a few days later and I normally ovulate around about the same time each month but I didn’t this month and thought it was strange but didn’t think it was a big deal as of course it can change I waited a while we was still trying just incase we got my peak didn’t want to miss not having sperm already waiting for my egg i was more than a week late to ovulation which has never ever happened I of course started thinking all sorts as of course no egg means no pregnancy I looked on my app to see when I’m due my period and it says 6 days left I started getting cramping and period like feeling and knew it can’t be my period as I never ever started this early and this morning as there’s 5 days left I started spotting and it’s now turned into period I know it sounds crazy but should I be worried I didn’t ovulate this month or maybe I missed it and how on earth has my period come 5 days early