I graduated college with a game design degree. Im proud of myself for doing it, but now I feel stuck. I have no clue what to do with my life. I don’t really want to work in the field, yet I have no clue what I would rather do. I work retail right now, and it’s.. fine…? Not terrible, but not something I plan to do forever. I feel directionless now, and it’s really weighing on me.
Water. Just posting for girl support here honestly. I work at the big blue store, and theres a guy who does online orders through the separate but adjacent company who keeps flirting with me.
He told me I was beautiful the first time, which is fine, I thanked him and continued my day. He asked for my number and socials the next time. Awkward. I said no. The third time he asked me again for my number and socials. I told him I have a boyfriend and showed him a picture of myself with my boyfriend. He continued to ask for my info under the guise of “checking on me when im not at work”. I work 5 days a week and see him frequently. I said no, but he pushed further until I said I only talk to my boyfriend and immediate family.
He also stares at me whenever he comes in. At that point, I told my supervisor and security, who said they can try to take action to get him kicked off the shopping platform. The staring continued, He told me he “loves my face”, whatever whatever. Its all awkward and uncomfortable for me, so I kind of answer quickly and hope he leaves. He seeks me out whenever he spots me there. I work up front so it’s kind of impossible to avoid him altogether.
Today, he walked by me and called me baby. That made me super uncomfortable. I talked again to the security guy who said the shopping platform got back to him and said I have to file a police report about it if I want to get him trespassed. He hasnt done anything physical to me, only make me visibly uncomfortable every time hes there, so Im not sure how seriously the police will take it.
Im kind of at a loss on what to do here. I hate seeing this guy so much that I’m beginning to dread work every day (more than I typically do, at least) and pray I don’t see him.
In my store there is one specific spark shopper who keeps flirting with me, asking my number despite me saying no, staring at me, and calling me baby. it makes me uncomfortable to the point where I dread him coming in every day. AP said they cant do much about it, and I have to file a police report, but I’m afraid they won’t do anything about it. Does anyone have experience with this kind of thing? I feel kind of stuck here.
I honestly forgot I had a work phone so it sat on my nightstand for months. I charged it this morning and it seemed to have factory reset itself and all the walmart related apps are gone, I only have the default google apps. I didn’t even know this could happen