u/saolangjian

I am 36 years old, and my wife is 34. She is very attractive, with a beautiful face and a stunning figure. Her measurements are 89–61–90 cm, and she has around 20,000 followers on social media.
She regularly shares photos of shopping trips and travel on her social media account, and many of her posts receive several thousand likes. As a result, she often receives direct messages from men who compliment her and invite her to get acquainted, have dinner, or travel together.
She is indifferent to most of these messages, but a few handsome, muscular men have caught her attention. She asked me whether it would be acceptable for her to simply chat with them or meet them in person.
She enjoys receiving admiration and attention from attractive men and would like to experience being complimented and cherished face-to-face.
Personally, I do not mind this. In fact, I feel a sense of pride when other accomplished and attractive men admire my wife. I do not know whether other men would feel the same way.
We have agreed not to pursue any relationships with people she meets through social media, as that does not seem particularly safe.
Over the next couple of days, we are planning to visit some high-end bars. My wife intends to wear a sexy, low-cut mini dress similar to what younger women in those venues might wear, and we hope to see whether any interesting encounters happen naturally.
I will be sitting nearby and keeping an eye on things. To be honest, I find the idea quite exciting.
I am unsure whether this kind of beginning could be risky. Do you have any advice on how to explore this type of boundary-pushing open relationship?
The reality is that I cannot stop men from approaching or inviting her anyway. So I feel it may be better to allow her, within boundaries that I can oversee, to chat with attractive men and perhaps exchange hugs. We have agreed that kissing and sexual intercourse are absolutely off limits. We also will not exchange contact information with anyone.
Our sex life is very satisfying, and my wife is generally fulfilled. However, she has told me that she is also curious about what it might be like to experience different men. I understand that feeling, because I am also curious about what it would be like to be with other women. For now, though, we believe that exploring things in this way may add excitement and novelty to our relationship without actually becoming physically involved with other people.
I am not sure whether the content of this text complies with community guidelines. If any part of it does not, please remove it, but please do not suspend or ban the account. Thank you.

I am 36 years old, and my wife is 34. She is very attractive, with a beautiful face and a stunning figure. Her measurements are 89–61–90 cm, and she has around 20,000 followers on social media.
She regularly shares photos of shopping trips and travel on her social media account, and many of her posts receive several thousand likes. As a result, she often receives direct messages from men who compliment her and invite her to get acquainted, have dinner, or travel together.
She is indifferent to most of these messages, but a few handsome, muscular men have caught her attention. She asked me whether it would be acceptable for her to simply chat with them or meet them in person.
She enjoys receiving admiration and attention from attractive men and would like to experience being complimented and cherished face-to-face.
Personally, I do not mind this. In fact, I feel a sense of pride when other accomplished and attractive men admire my wife. I do not know whether other men would feel the same way.
We have agreed not to pursue any relationships with people she meets through social media, as that does not seem particularly safe.
Over the next couple of days, we are planning to visit some high-end bars. My wife intends to wear a sexy, low-cut mini dress similar to what younger women in those venues might wear, and we hope to see whether any interesting encounters happen naturally.
I will be sitting nearby and keeping an eye on things. To be honest, I find the idea quite exciting.
I am unsure whether this kind of beginning could be risky. Do you have any advice on how to explore this type of boundary-pushing open relationship?
The reality is that I cannot stop men from approaching or inviting her anyway. So I feel it may be better to allow her, within boundaries that I can oversee, to chat with attractive men and perhaps exchange hugs. We have agreed that kissing and sexual intercourse are absolutely off limits. We also will not exchange contact information with anyone.
Our sex life is very satisfying, and my wife is generally fulfilled. However, she has told me that she is also curious about what it might be like to experience different men. I understand that feeling, because I am also curious about what it would be like to be with other women. For now, though, we believe that exploring things in this way may add excitement and novelty to our relationship without actually becoming physically involved with other people.
I am not sure whether the content of this text complies with community guidelines. If any part of it does not, please remove it, but please do not suspend or ban the account. Thank you.

I am 36 years old, and my wife is 34. She is very attractive, with a beautiful face and a stunning figure. Her measurements are 89–61–90 cm, and she has around 20,000 followers on social media.
She regularly shares photos of shopping trips and travel on her social media account, and many of her posts receive several thousand likes. As a result, she often receives direct messages from men who compliment her and invite her to get acquainted, have dinner, or travel together.
She is indifferent to most of these messages, but a few handsome, muscular men have caught her attention. She asked me whether it would be acceptable for her to simply chat with them or meet them in person.
She enjoys receiving admiration and attention from attractive men and would like to experience being complimented and cherished face-to-face.
Personally, I do not mind this. In fact, I feel a sense of pride when other accomplished and attractive men admire my wife. I do not know whether other men would feel the same way.
We have agreed not to pursue any relationships with people she meets through social media, as that does not seem particularly safe.
Over the next couple of days, we are planning to visit some high-end bars. My wife intends to wear a sexy, low-cut mini dress similar to what younger women in those venues might wear, and we hope to see whether any interesting encounters happen naturally.
I will be sitting nearby and keeping an eye on things. To be honest, I find the idea quite exciting.
I am unsure whether this kind of beginning could be risky. Do you have any advice on how to explore this type of boundary-pushing open relationship?
The reality is that I cannot stop men from approaching or inviting her anyway. So I feel it may be better to allow her, within boundaries that I can oversee, to chat with attractive men and perhaps exchange hugs. We have agreed that kissing and sexual intercourse are absolutely off limits. We also will not exchange contact information with anyone.
Our sex life is very satisfying, and my wife is generally fulfilled. However, she has told me that she is also curious about what it might be like to experience different men. I understand that feeling, because I am also curious about what it would be like to be with other women. For now, though, we believe that exploring things in this way may add excitement and novelty to our relationship without actually becoming physically involved with other people.
I am not sure whether the content of this text complies with community guidelines. If any part of it does not, please remove it, but please do not suspend or ban the account. Thank you.
我36岁，老婆34岁，她面容姣好，身材火辣，三围是89，61，90，她在sns上有2万粉丝。
因为她的sns账户上分享了平时逛街和旅行的照片，大部分都有好几千个赞。有各种男人发私信给她，赞美她，并且提出认识，吃饭，旅游的邀请。
老婆对大部分私信无动于衷，但是有几个帅气肌肉男引起了她注意。她向我申请是否可以跟他们只是聊天或者见面。
她想获得帅哥的当面赞美，宠爱。
我其实并不介意这些，因为自己的老婆被优秀的男人欣赏，是一种骄傲。我不知道其他的男人是否也会有这样的心态。
我们现在约定不从sns认识的这些人发展，因为那不太安全。
这两天我们打算去高端的酒吧，老婆会穿上酒吧里年轻女孩才会穿的性感低胸超短裙在那里寻找偶遇。
我会坐在旁边监督，我想这确实令人兴奋。
我不知道这样的开始是危险的？是否有建议，如何尝试这种边缘性的开放式关系？

反正根本无法禁止男人们对她提出邀请，还不如在我可以控制的范围内让老婆仅限于与帅哥聊天，抱抱。我们约定绝对不允许亲吻和插入性行为。也不交换联系方式。

我们的性生活非常和谐，老婆比较满足。但是她跟我说也很想体验不同的男人。我表示理解，因为我也想试试别的女人。但目前我想我们可以通过这种方式增加激情，而不必真与其他人发生关系。
我不确定文字内容是否符合社区规则，如果不符请删除，但请不要封禁账号，谢谢。