u/saphirotte

Hi, needed some sound advice:

So I'm planning to resign next week, Oct. 12, kasi hindi ko na talaga kaya ka-toxican sa workplace esp. yung supervisor ko. Pero case is, wala pa kong trabaho na malilipatan.

I've been with this company for 9 years, at nung nagpacompute na ko ng backpay ko ay medyo makaka-survive na ko ng ilang months, assuming na unemployed pa ko till then.

So, yun nga: should I proceed ba na ipasa na yung resignation ko or wait ko muna makahanap ng bagong malilipatan? I don't know kung makakaya ko pa pakisamahan supervisor ko pero ayoko rin naman matengga ng matagal after resigning. Hay.

I found out just today that my boyfriend of ten years is not just cheating on me, but likes being bottomed by somebody. I mean, it's okay naman pero ang masakit kasi ayaw niyang mag-bot sakin, tapos sa iba siya pa pala nag-i-initiate. I don't know how will I recover from this, but yeah. Ouch.