hey there, how are you, just feeling blue in the middle of the week, would love to meet new people and see if we get along to chat long term, I'm pretty chill, but am going through some rough stuff, maybe we can share with each other what we're going through and what we're enjoying to help the stress, message me if youre near my age, and maybe recommend something I can binge :)
It's been quite the summer and just when I thought I was in the clearing, I got snagged down on my knees
covid is "over" but I had it for a week recently and it makes my life in isolation more pointed
I thought I made a new friend, but it ended abruptly and that's the risk of online friendships, we keep searching and trying anyways, that's why you're reading this, thank you, really
I'm stumbling drunk without the alcohol through life right now, just doing my best to not hurt so much
If you want to have a nice conversation about what youre facing and what I'm facing, to talk about what we're enjoying to get through it, message me with your age, thanks again
When the hurt made a home in your heart and you just feel melancholy each day...
Sorry I'm just very sad, just surviving, not really living, and have to think how fortunate I am compared to a lot, I have a loving mother, I'm patching things up with my father, friends, roof over my head, food to eat...
But living as someone disabled is still very lonely, as I'm always home and unable to work, which really gets at my self esteem...
I consider myself a poet at least, but I haven't written anything I liked since last fall...
It's hard to feel self worth being isolated, I really want the courage to go out, but I have auditory hallucinations, it's very hard to be comfortable in public spaces for me now...
I wasn't always like this, I use to do all kinds of jobs from working in clothing stores, to being a photographer, to teaching, but at 25 things just went downhill...
I thought I was a lot better this past year, but I had a break up, then almost lost my apartment, I'm just making it now, but it's been so stressful...
I'd appreciate someone listening and supporting me as I get through this hard time, if you'd like to be there, please include your age as I'm hoping to talking to someone near my age, thank you 🫂
I'm not 100% but it's like the fog has cleared for the most part, it's nice to be able to breathe and shit
I'm like so grateful as ever for my life, but some shit still hurts, and I could use someone to listen to me vent more so than give advice, and like no pressure if you just want to talk for the day, but I am hoping someone would like to stay and be friends
I'm mainly still hurt from my break up, some other stuff happened too, but that's getting better, idk, it's hard like, with the break up, youre texting calling video chatting constantly and bam! Over. Done with. Reality is a stark difference from all that love and attention.
And youre doing all the things, being open and there for your friends when you can, being there for yourself, like taking meds, seeing a therapist etc, you're doing everything you can afford to do
It's just in the quiet you should feel peace, but youre tormented by the memories...
It's just so hard to connect now, I feel alone
If you can be kind enough to listen to me and support, please message me with your age, thank you 🫂
hi, I'm hoping you can help me find this indie game I saw on the geek remix channel, which is a videogame using live action actors and animation gameplay of a girl meeting a guy on a valorant or something like that game online and falling in love, they decide to meet and hook up, but he doesn't want to be serious and this breaks her heart, the game explores the complexity of online relationships and I'd just like to play it for nostalgia sake, so if you can help me great!
hey there, it's been hard so I'm looking for someone to listen more so than advice, just someone to be there with no judgement and support as I share what I'm going through, if you think you can be kind and listen like that, and are near my age, please message me thank you
hey 👋
sooo I'm this sweet Taiwanese American disabled girly looking to connect!
I'm into horrors (Texas Chainsaw Massacre, Mandy, Hereditary), thrillers (American Pyscho, Gone Girl, Se7en), sci-fi movies (Bladerunner 2049, Dune, Tenet)... I love watching movies with friends and discussing them afterwards, do recommend me something if you like
I'm into all type of music and recommend this rock band called Sludge Mother particularly their song, No Temple and Wargasm song, Salma Hayek, I love my taste expanded so we can share more music in chat
We can talk about anything under the sun! Thoughts on AI, manosphere, looksmaxxing, trad wife tiktok, etc
And life is hell, but we've all got our treasure chest of mementos of love and happiness, there's always something to cherish and I always in search for a person I can treasure
I know that sounds sappy, if you like that and want to get to know me/befriend me, when you message please include your age and try to show youve read my post thank you!
Hey there,
I'm hoping if the connection is good on reddit chat, we can eventually voice chat, I'm hoping for a conversation that's okay to be vulnerable in and share what I'm going through and you as well, and of course can have positivity and laughter...
Just being upfront I'm disabled with auditory hallucinations and it's tough, I have other issues too, but that's the most debilitating one, and still I try my best to be strong and positive, be grateful for what I have, and move forward...
Things about me, leftist and queer, enjoy any topic of discussion, (random silly stuff too) and learning new things from others, I follow pop culture like latest celeb gossip sub reddit and musicians sub reddit too, tattoos, art, and comics to name a few, I even like seeing what people get at groceries or thrift...
What are the lesser known 90s/2000s movies you've seen? I was just thinking of Reality Bites, I got it in the 5 dollar movie bin, what movies have you gotten from the bin? I'm from NY, but live in Taiwan in case time zone matters...
Idk, I just want to make a real good friend I can be myself with who like to talk on a regular basis about stuff going on in the world and with us, if you feel up to that drop me a line
33, Blasian, disabled girly down to chat about anything! It's been a rocky month, but I'm trying to stay positive, so let's talk about anything under the stars and have a good time, I like goofy sci fi movies like Tenet and Good Luck, Have Fun, Don't Die, I love bonding over what we seen and listen too, would be great to share music, my go to one is Jungle, have you heard of them? And how's the weather for you? Are you currently melting 🫠 lol hit me up if interested
I think Miley Cyrus song 'Cant Be Tamed' was an ode and in honor of my frizzy curly hair, it's pretty wild and poofy now that it's the height of summer and I have no AC, I want to love it, so 70s or if it was long, very metal, lol how are you experiencing the summer heat?
Idk, I'm down on my luck and I've been feeling more madness lately or despair, like how am I going to get out of this jam this time, maybe we all try to outrun horrible fates, when we're young we don't focus on how bad something can be but how great, I went through a lot young, but I was so hopeful and I try to hold onto that hopefulness now as much as I can, maybe you do too
I think I'm changing also in terms of movie taste, I think I like sci fi films more than thrillers and thrillers were my #1, I've just seen so many good sci fo films in the past year
And you know something positive there's always something new to look forward to, like a new song to discover, if you're really into music like me, we can definitely share our finds
Sigh, I'm just trying to be brave and in good spirits despite stress, but it's hard alone, so it'd mean a lot to have people to talk to, listen, and befriend
If youre interested in getting to know me please message me a sci fi movie you recommend or something that shows you've read my post with your age, thank you 🫂
I'm glad so many classic shows are back on Netflix, (but I would like Parks and Rec lol)
I've been rewatching Friends and it's been a nice escape, I'm in the 3rd season were Ross and Rachel break up and it's relatable because I am getting over a break up myself, albeit from different reasons lol idk I sometimes think Ross doesn't deserve Rachel, what do you think? What's something you like to watch?
Oh jeeze, honestly I'm a mess these days, just getting by day by day, I think I'm succeeding in a way, like it's really hard but I'm still showing up, I have to move out of my place soon and the instability coming up is scary and like all I can do is be as calm as possible, is that relatable?
I miss having someone in my life I can really talk to and I hope to find that person again, but I know it doesn't always work out with this reddit chat thing, still I hold out hope, the opportunity to be myself is worth it, I'm very sensitive and loving, and can be silly too, but I haven't been myself lately idk, I've been sad and worried and could use some support
I like all kinds of things but I'm mostly a homebody, I stay home and enjoy writing, music, shows, movies, and books and the occasional exercise lol
My playlist is full of alternative music that I'd be happy to share but lately I've been listening to a lot of Doja Cat, Lana Del Rey, and the infamous Taylor Swift
I'm binging Friends like I mentioned and for movies, I think my new favorite is this Sci fi movie called Tenet even if the concept may be goofy now I think about it, my all time favorite film is American Psycho, and I like other thrillers plus Hitch Hock-y, Twilight zone type stuff, for romance my favorite is Pride and Prejudice and Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
I lived in this apartment 2 years and can't afford it anymore and it sucks, but these were really good years and I appreciate the experiences I had, I just hope I can find comfort in the next thing, that I can handle the challenges coming up, hopefully I don't have to alone, and please know that I don't want charity, I just need someone to care, I hope to figure out things on my own
Living with disability is hard, but I don't think friendships/companionships are impossible for myself, so my last relationship didn't work, impermanence is part of life, but we still strive for things to last, I dont think anyone doesn't want love to not work
This is getting really long so I'll wrap up here, idk it's been bitter lately and I could use some sweet to balance things out, if you want to get to know me better, it means a lot to me people would message or comment, it'd be really nice to chat and make a friend, please include your age in your message, thank you 🫂
It's really stressful right now, I think I'm about to lose my place
I was upset about the end of my relationship, but like this setback surpasses that for sure, idk if I'm having a string of bad luck
So it's really hard to be in my own head about this and everything else that's happening so if you could be a dear and listen, I promise I'm not asking for money, just need advice and emotional support to get through it, please message or comment if youre near my age thank you
hey how are you doing? I'm hoping to chat with new people about light things, but also be supportive of our struggles, like let's see if we can cheer each other up you know
light things like our interests, I'm into a wide range of music and would love to send you stuff from groove to alternative and hear your taste too, I'm into all kinds of movies and just recently enjoyed Tenet, glad I finally watched it
the struggles for me is I'm disabled and it's been tougher recently, but I think I made the turn around today
So it'd be great to talk to people and share how we're doing this summer, maybe discuss relationships cause I'm still recovering from that, what's a show you've been watching?
Wow yeah yesterday was a really rough day but I pulled through, just want to thank everyone who reached out even if it was a comment or we only spoke briefly
I'm better today, but I'd still like to meet people and share my current state with someone, help me stay grounded, and hear what's going on with you too if you want to share, make a friend
No pressure, just see how the conversation goes, one person just wrote a super long thoughtful message to me and I was deeply touched
Before I forget I feel I should share some of my hardships upfront so you can better decide if youre up to sticking around, in case you wouldn't be comfortable I am disabled with auditory hallucinations, I don't think it effects communication much but idk some people get the ick lol
If you like to hear how I'm doing, be supportive as a listening ear, I'd greatly appreciate it
I wrote a thoughtful post and it got downvoted 😅 I don't quite know how to ask for help now after that, but I'm still going to try, maybe it was too long and people didn't want to read so much, I don't know, the basic sentiment was me questioning if I'm too unattractive or too ill, if I could work my way to be prettier and healthier or I'm doomed, lol cause I keep hitting a wall, things have gotten worse and I don't know how to tell my friends, like it feels neverending, something that makes you feel like a pariah, I'm sorry if all this sounds unappealing, I'm very tired, but I don't want to give up, something in me wants to fight for my life, so I hope someone cares to hear me out and be there thank you
Hey, how are you... I'm looking for someone to listen without judgment and offer kind words or encouragement as I share what I'm going through, it's pretty rough right now, and I wish to feel better about my situation, I think life after my break up in May is rocky, I'm still processing things, if you're willing and have time to listen to me, that would be so kind and appreciated, just message me or comment, thank you 🫂
I'm pretty worn down, I caught a cold too, so really not feeling my best, I feel sad, but hopeful with this community and the advice tag, so many kind strangers answer the call, so hopefully you message me today and lend a kind ear
What's on my mind is several things, basically everything I'm facing now and the dramas of the past few days, I need to vent or talk gently on things and recieve support on the matters on hand
I feel very hurt, but I'm trying to hold on and get through it, if youre suffering to i wouldn't mind listening to each other as well
If youre interested in chatting with me, please message me including your age, reddit is finicky even if my dm is open not everyone can see it so welcome to comment too, thanks in advance 🫂
I'm deeply hurt and wish to share with a kind listener what's wrong, I had a fall out with a friend and there is a lot to it, some too embarrassing to put on this post, if youre willing to listen without judgment and give advice on what to do next I would really appreciate it, just please be over 25, thank you 🫂
How to start this, in some ways I'm like you, we are one in the same in that we yearn to be loved and understood, and from these chats you never know, you might have found your new best friend and sure there's a lot of assholes and things can go sour, but we're resilient, we keep trying, keep searching for that person who makes us feel good just for being who we are, I can't guarantee that's me, but itd mean so much to me you give it a shot
A little about me, I'm a 33 year black and Taiwanese woman who grew up in NY and now lives in Taiwan, I have a couple illnesses, but the most prominent one is auditory hallucinations, despite this difficulty I can still enjoy movies, shows, music and books, I love recommending movies and songs!
I'm hoping this tag will bring kind people, especially about my struggles with my health and make friends, if interested just message me your favorite dessert and age, thank you 🫂
Hey there, I'm just keep striking out lately, thought I try different approach... Do you think I'm wrong in thinking there's ways to be kind and complimentary about people's appearance when they are sharing a photo of themselves? Sorry I'm just really hurt... Yes not everyone is going to find you attractive, but I think itd be crazy we were so brazen to tell everyone we found unattractive just that, that they are unattractive, so harsh, I feel with how beauty standards have gotten so severe, not only for women, but men too, it's not wrong to be friendly or gentle about looks, I know it's not easy, you don't want to give the wrong message, that's why I say you look really nice or great, I see no harm in this, it doesn't have to be so deep, I'm so so sorry to be long winded about this, but some guy told me I lack empathy for this view and instead of telling him off I politely left the conversation, mature, but unsatisfying... It really hurts because we just had a deep conversation the day before and it felt like wow maybe I'll have another close friend kind of thing, but he gave an ultimatum right away about the topic of looks and honestly red flag for not thinking we could meet in the middle... Sorry I just need to vent and hopefully meet like minded people who care about what people feel...
Besides this I'm going through a lot, loss my ex boyfriend in May and have auditory hallucinations... I having trouble with my sleep too...
I'm just heartbroken to think I made a really good friend but turns out he was a jerk...
I appreciate any kind words, this tag normally brings out the kindest people and I hope it happens again, because I could use some kindness and new friends...
Please message if youre over 25+ thank you 🫂