u/secrets-for-myself

alright guys, i need good suggestions on the comfiest shoes that you have when you work in the lab!! i need some new shoes for work and i want the most comfy and longest lasting shoe!

I take my exam tomorrow evening, and I am super nervous! I need all the good vibes a person can get.

my boyfriend (22M) and i (22F) have been together for a little over a year now. We have had disagreements about what i can wear for most of the relationship. He states that when he was growing up that women who are with a partner should not show any cleavage what so ever in what they wear and is continuing that boundary with me. I have tried to push back on it saying i grew up differently and basically was told to wear whatever i feel confident in but i am willing to dress more modest. But trying to talk about possible compromises or him having more of an open mind has not gone well. He just says that I think he’s controlling and it hurts him. I have been but some of the things that he doesn’t want me to wear is basically is kinda extreme in my opinion. it would be like a tank top that covers my cleavage and everything but if i bend down too far then you might see a little bit. i have bigger boobs (36 DD) so i feel like i really can’t wear much cause no matter what there will always be some sort of cleavage and gap with my shirt from my chest. I have agreed to wear and not wear what he asks to make him comfortable. What i am trying to answer is this considered too controlling or is it reasonable and i should just follow it so i can make him happy?

hey everyone! i have my BOC exam coming up next week and i am wondering if i am sitting okay to pass the exam. I have been using my textbooks, LabCE, and a couple of review textbooks to study along with quizlet. One my LabCE Cat exams, i have been getting the difficulty score of about 4-5. Am i sitting pretty well to pass or should i be panicking more?

I’m writing this because i am not sure if i am the one in the wrong or not. My bf (22 M) is mad because I (22 F) redownloaded snapchat recently after originally deleting it because he was uncomfortable with it. The reason why he is uncomfortable with it is because back when we first started talking i was snapping a different guy but decided to slowly stop snapping him instead of just blocking him to avoid conflict (stupid i know). My boyfriend felt very hurt by it and says he’s still hurt by it today. He asked me about a month and a half back to delete it because he was uncomfortable i “used it to hurt him”. Anyways yesterday i was with a friend and she said she sent me a video on snap i did not see. i was curious so i redownloaded snap and saw it and honestly missed snapping and chatting with my friends on it. i decided to keep it downloaded and wanted to talk to him later about keeping it. well that did not go well as he was upset i didnt talk to him first before downloading it again and says i “wasn’t thinking about him or his feelings” when i redownloaded it without asking. Now we are kinda stuck because he says the only way he can trust me again (which i have broken his trust in the past and we are working on rebuilding it) is if i delete it again and dont get it back until he is comfortable and healed. I just don’t know what to do at this point. am i on the wrong for wanting to keep it? He says that it’s sad and frustrating how i can’t sacrifice one app for him. Should i delete or just because he is uncomfortable when all i want to do is talk to my friends on it?