i can maybe talk to a girl ( only online ) but offline nah i fumble alot i dont have kinda skills rn, and online too when i start talking to a girl i dont know what to say or how to flirt so girls friendzones me cuz they think am a loser or sum shi and thats bad i think how do i improve my game please help me🙏🏻
When I was 12 to 15 years old, I struggled with tying my patka every morning. Sometimes it would be too loose or too tight, which really affected my confidence. I've managed to overcome that now that I'm 18. People my age, as well as some uncles, suggest that I wear a turban since I usually wear a cap. I've tried learning how to tie a turban, but I just can’t get the hang of it.
I've forced myself to hold on to my long hair and believed that I would get through this struggle, but honestly, wearing a turban is not for me. I don’t think I look good in it either. It takes me about 20 minutes every morning to put it on, and then I feel like it compromises my looks. I have comfort issues with it too. It feels like I'm being forced to do something that doesn’t align with how I feel.
I follow Sikhism, which is a beautiful religion, but I find myself in conflict over the turban and maintaining long hair. I feel exhausted at this point, and I’m not sure how to convince my parents. I'm afraid they would disown me if I made a change. This aspect of the religion frustrates me because I believe that religions are supposed to free us. Love is supposed to give us freedom, so why does it feel so constricting for me?