u/sedativeh0r

I (25 female) am in an amazing relationship with my boyfriend (23 male). We’ve met each other on February 2025 and we’ve been together since October of 2025. He lives in the UK and I live in the Netherlands. Here is the issue: I can’t visit him due to me not having a Dutch passport and my visa has been denied twice. He can visit me and the last time we saw each other was beginning of May 2026

I’ve been working on getting a lawyer for my citizenship (I have a criminal record for money laundering. It’s a long story but I was a victim of a fraud situation back in 2019. Got convicted in 2022 due to COVID. They convicted me because they didn’t care to find evidence that I didn’t do it. I’ve got sentenced for 40 hours community service and it was done on February of 2024). It’s a very long process and it’s taking a mental load on me and I can’t imagine how he feels. He is the one who has visited me ever since we met. It has taken such a huge toll on us, countless of arguments, constant ending of relationship and getting back together.

While I was otp with him yesterday, he decided that he no longer can be in a relationship because of the distance and it shattered my heart. I am trying my hardest to convince him that it’s all going to be over soon but I just seem to show him and tell him to have some faith. I love him so much and I do not want to lose him.

I’m looking for ways to get to him as soon as possible and I need help to show him that I will go above and beyond for him no matter what.

I (25 female) am in an amazing relationship with my boyfriend (23 male). We’ve met each other on February 2025 and we’ve been together since October of 2025. He lives in the UK and I live in the Netherlands. Here is the issue: I can’t visit him due to me not having a Dutch passport and my visa has been denied twice.

I’ve been working on getting a lawyer for my citizenship (I have a criminal record for money laundering. It’s a long story but I was a victim of a fraud situation back in 2019. Got convicted in 2022 due to COVID. They convicted me because they didn’t care to find evidence that I didn’t do it. I’ve got sentenced for 40 hours community service and it was done on February of 2024). It’s a very long process and it’s taking a mental load on me and I can’t imagine how he feels. He is the one who has visited me ever since we met. It has taken such a huge toll on us, countless of arguments, constant ending of relationship and getting back together.

While I was otp with him yesterday, he decided that he no longer can be in a relationship because of the distance and it shattered my heart. I am trying my hardest to convince him that it’s all going to be over soon but I just seem to show him and tell him to have some faith. I love him so much and I do not want to lose him.

I’m looking for ways to get to him as soon as possible and I need help to show him that I will go above and beyond for him no matter what.

I (25 female) am in an amazing relationship with my boyfriend (23 male). We’ve met each other on February 2025 and we’ve been together since October of 2025. He lives in the UK and I live in the Netherlands. Here is the issue: I can’t visit him due to me not having a Dutch passport and my visa has been denied twice.

I’ve been working on getting a lawyer for my citizenship (I have a criminal record for money laundering. It’s a long story but I was a victim of a fraud situation back in 2019. Got convicted in 2022 due to COVID. They convicted me because they didn’t care to find evidence that I didn’t do it. I’ve got sentenced for 40 hours community service and it was done on February of 2024). It’s a very long process and it’s taking a mental load on me and I can’t imagine how he feels. He is the one who has visited me ever since we met. It has taken such a huge toll on us, countless of arguments, constant ending of relationship and getting back together.

While I was otp with him yesterday, he decided that he no longer can be in a relationship because of the distance and it shattered my heart. I am trying my hardest to convince him that it’s all going to be over soon but I just seem to show him and tell him to have some faith. I love him so much and I do not want to lose him.

I’m looking for ways to get to him as soon as possible and I need help to show him that I will go above and beyond for him no matter what.