u/shel-xx

Amazing. Two whole days of Sami cosplaying as a helpful husband and involved father—seasoning salmon, feeding baby Ilya, standing in a kitchen—and now we’re back to our regularly scheduled programming.

They had chicken-and-rice takeaway tonight, but apparently the content cupboard is empty, so he’s reposting videos from two days ago to remind everyone that he once held a seasoning bottle and fed his child.

Don’t worry, Sami, we noticed. But by all means, keep reposting the greatest hits. I’m sure another recycled clip will convince everyone you’re Husband and Father of the Year. 🤣

Her trip to Dubai, her house purchase, her surgery, and even the previous trip she took to visit her friends — all of those things cost money. How does she afford it all?

I know she’s verified on Snapchat and posts content daily, but does she make significantly more money than the others? She seems to be in a position to buy real estate, while Pops still appears to be relying on TikTok lives to drum up funds..

Samah has only recently attended a couple of PR events — one during Ramadan and another afterwards — so I’m wondering if there’s another source of income that hasn’t been mentioned?

What do you all think? Is Snapchat revenue really that lucrative, or are there likely other income streams contributing to her lifestyle and property purchase? 🧐

Sami is clearly reading these daily Reddit posts. I almost fell off my chair when I saw him “helping” J with the cooking today. From the video, all we actually saw was him seasoning the salmon. Honestly, Taj seemed to do more when making chicken nuggets with Fifi.

Then, in the next video, we see him feeding his daughter. I genuinely hope this is him finally stepping up and becoming more involved, rather than putting on a show to convince people he’s more than just “2%.”

On a side note, that little dig at J — “Wow, you’re cooking today? It’s been like 40 days” — really rubbed me the wrong way. I honestly didn’t think he’d say that publicly. What a rat. It feels like every day this moron finds a new way to embarrass and shame his wife instead of protecting her dignity. This guy rage-baits me daily. 😡

I know the Kareem haters might disagree with this, but when it comes to parenting, I think Kareem comes out on top.

Despite his flaws, from the moment Baby Jaz was born—and even before that with Taj—Kareem has consistently appeared to be a very hands-on father. He supports Fifi with feeds, takes the children out independently, and seems genuinely involved in their day-to-day care. More importantly, he appears to actively lighten Fifi’s load, especially during the recovery period after giving birth.

When you compare that to Sammy, the difference is noticeable. I can’t recall ever seeing him care for the children independently. I don’t think I’ve ever seen him feed Idris, let alone Baby Ayla. Before anyone says we only see a small percentage of their lives on Snapchat, feeding or caring for his children seems like exactly the kind of thing he would share if he wanted to prove his critics wrong.

Kareem is constantly interacting with Taj and now Baby Ayla. We regularly see him carrying one of the children, pushing the pram, or taking an active role while allowing Fifi time to recover. He genuinely seems happy to be a father.

And… let’s not forget that he cooks for Fifi and his child as well, cleans up, and takes care of all of the cats. None of these things are some alien concept or extraordinary favour to a partner—they’re simply the mark of a responsible adult. Helping to run a household and care for your family is what should be expected. Honestly, I blame Salem for not showing his son what it takes to be a man. Well done to Kareem’s parents for raising someone who demonstrates the qualities all men should strive for.

In contrast, Sammy has openly admitted that he lacks patience. He doesn’t read to his son and instead seems more inclined to hand him a brand-new toy to keep him distracted, yet somehow expects him to start forming coherent sentences out of nowhere, and hasn’t even put together the digger that was gifted to his son months ago.

I genuinely hope Sammy—or someone close to him—reads this and sees it as a wake-up call. This isn’t just about public perception. Children don’t stay young forever, and they remember who was present and involved in their lives. If there’s one thing we’ve learned from watching other families, it’s that a father’s active involvement matters, and the consequences of being absent can last long into adulthood.

I genuinely believe Sammy is on the spectrum. His general demeanour and certain traits — which I originally believed were simply toxic behaviours … on closer inspection seem more like cognitive or behavioural dysfunctions. 🤨

What’s really sad is that, because of Sammy’s impatience and these traits, his children will either recoil or begin acting out. From the looks of it, Idris already displays levels of anxiousness that, at his age — especially when you compare the way Taj explores similar environments.

Jalilah also looks genuinely fed up with him, and honestly, I don’t blame her! Having her AirPods permanently jammed in her ears to avoid his screechy voice or the endless questions about “how much does it hurt today…?” “Really still that much pain..?” says a lot.

We all know he’s waiting for her pain level to drop to a 1 so he can either parade her around malls to make content, or shove a phone in her face while she cooks elaborate meals for him again — all for content!!!

Let’s face it she is his meal ticket…. Without her, he would have no content to record…

I genuinely cannot get over the level of stupidity and audacity in that Snap. Your wife is ONE WEEK postpartum after major abdominal surgery — where they literally cut through layers of skin, tissue, muscle, and uterus to deliver a human being — and your response to her saying her pain is an 8/10 is:

“8? Really? I thought it’d be less than that…”

What planet is this man living on?

Women are expected to be up feeding a newborn every two hours, barely sleeping, bleeding, recovering from surgery, trying to walk properly again, dealing with hormones crashing, and somehow still managing the house and childcare — meanwhile this man acts shocked that she’s still in pain?

If Sammy had a paper cut, we’d never hear the end of it. But his wife has been literally cut open and he’s treating her pain rating like she’s exaggerating for dramatic effect. It’s so dismissive and gross.

And the worst part is he says it with that smug “I’m just asking questions” attitude instead of actually helping. Maybe instead of interrogating her pain levels, try picking up a vacuum, making food, changing nappies, cleaning something, or being useful for once. The bar is already underground and somehow he still can’t reach it.

The fact she even has to explain herself while recovering from a C-section is infuriating. She deserves support, rest, and basic compassion — not a man acting bewildered that major surgery hurts.

Absolute runt behaviour.

I hope he reads this and slaps himself.. 😤🤬